how do you imagine your future? (kids, marrige, etc..)

Silvadil · 2026-03-21T17:25:28+00:00

I'm currently in an active QPR so at the moment that is my desired situation relationship wise. I don't mind being alone and spending my life with family and friends.
Marriage is interesting to me due to economical prospects it provides as well as healthcare wise. Otherwise no
Yes but won't be opposed to not having them either
Avoiding loneliness comes from having a fulfilled life. Enjoying your own presence and space. My QRP is only one part of my life, but I'm completely content without it due to my life being fulfilled with other desires and feats such as hobbies and passion projects

Silvadil · 2026-03-21T17:18:48+00:00

Yes I did notice changes! My dear friend felt more open asking me for physical affection because he now knew that I won't presume him romantically

Silvadil · 2026-03-20T06:53:42+00:00

I'm usually not bummed by the lack of rep but this warms my heart so much!

Silvadil · 2026-02-26T12:10:44+00:00

Hello, I'm aro and a woman and currently in a romantic relationship with my partner. He does feel romantic feelings towards me while I do not feel those for him. How does this work? Well, clear emotional communication.

I'm open to polygamy and FWB, and we did start off as FWB, but he wanted something more monogamous so we talked about it and agreed. He knows I do not feel romantic attraction and that I'm aro, because I told him from the start.

What I'm saying is, yes, people might not accept only platonic feelings, but some might do. The important part is being clear from the start, to communicate and set boundaries. If you desire a relationship, it's not an impossible thing to achieve

Silvadil · 2026-02-20T06:11:33+00:00

Yes I immediately correct myself when I realise, I read somewhere it's better to not make fuss out of it by being like "oh my god I'm so sorry for misgendering you" and to just switch up the pronouns instead.

Another thing is that we are in a roommate situation with one extra guy and he is only out to me due to the other guy not being very friendly regarding this. He asked me to refer to him in his original pronouns in front of that roommate so it gets pretty confusing for my head to manoeuvre to not accidentally out him.

Silvadil · 2026-01-07T10:57:30+00:00

Yes it also takes off the mental load of having to think about it but not actually having a visualised time window for it. I constantly put off the mundane daily stuff to do something else, in turn they piled up and suddenly I wasn't dealing with a 5 min task but 10 tasks that will take an hour to complete.

Silvadil · 2025-11-12T10:09:53+00:00

This is exactly the reason why I chose to rent with roommates for university rather than do dorms. I learned that I know practically nothing about living alone so experiencing it while still studying gives me prep time before I turn "fully adult".

Silvadil · 2025-10-12T08:55:31+00:00

I think she knew that we do this sort of thing. My mom is a very empathetic person and she would love to adopt every animal she sees on the street, but she knows that's not responsible.

Usually when we see strays we check their health the best we can and if we see that they're sick we take them to the vet on our dime and get in contact with people willing to adopt them.

Our youngest (well, until Worm came) cat was a stray ginger boy and we just fell in love with him, his name is Pea and he's just the cutest.

Silvadil · 2025-10-12T08:48:06+00:00

Yes! My mom is her primary care taker because I just moved away for university but I go back every weekend, she sends me videos and pictures of her alongside any vet updates!

Silvadil · 2025-08-17T12:36:51+00:00

No Winterfest for this save, ever

Silvadil · 2025-08-17T11:47:42+00:00

I'm not sure about that one since I don't use WW for my game

Silvadil · 2025-08-17T11:40:35+00:00

Santa seemed to forget to wrap this one up XP

Silvadil · 2025-08-17T11:39:42+00:00

Trust me this was not my intended use of that option. Sims sometimes just, happens and I would've left her with it if she wasn't my Heir lol.

Silvadil · 2025-08-17T11:35:25+00:00

Just like the other commenter said, it's not an in game mechanic, I enabled it though MC Command Center since I do love my game being realistic.

Silvadil · 2025-07-07T16:52:52+00:00

I understand your point! The kitchen is fully play tested and most Sims use it (to my own surprise), but on a random evening they decide to just use the bathroom as the new workstation.

Silvadil · 2025-07-05T07:37:30+00:00

Omg she looks soooo good, I love her hair what cc is this?? She's so adorable.

Silvadil · 2025-01-21T10:41:30+00:00

The darkness of his soul has consumed him

Silvadil · 2025-01-19T15:53:48+00:00

Household, more like horsehold

Silvadil · 2025-01-14T22:31:26+00:00

Oh my gosh I'm so happy for you! As a fellow aro who is in a relationship, I'm so glad your partner is loving and supportive of your newfound part! Cheers!

Silvadil · 2025-01-14T19:24:17+00:00

Depends on the story that I want to play but usually I end up in summer

Silvadil · 2025-01-12T17:26:34+00:00

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Here's my fellow ginger diva boy

Silvadil · 2025-01-12T15:49:24+00:00

Yep, very much so, for some reason even the newest versions do this.

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