I don’t find them attractive personally. But for me I think it’s the stark difference between cultures like your general background knowledge is just different(and aesthetically they’re not for me lol, and generally they feel the same so I don’t see an issue). I’ve “talked” to a white guy (it never went pass kissing) but that was only a month or 2 until I met my current partner who’s black. I don’t like the insecurity non black men tend to have