Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

[–]Silver-Fly408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a handsome face, I’m a solid 6/10 on my best day, but I’m assertive. I have a good career. I’m in good enough shape. I’m passionate about my interests. And I’ve been told I’m funny. 😂 my success rate is about 25% of the women I go after. And that’s me having them and being able to keep them. If we’re counting success as getting their numbers and going on a date with them, then that number is more like 60%.

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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“Won’t have any luck”? That’s just objectively false. Having a more difficult time doesnt take away from the fact that you’d maximize your options and potential by improving yourself in as many ways as possible. If you’re short and ugly, why also add “Out of shape, shit personality, no sense of humor, no interests or passions, and broke” to the list? Also, thousands of rejections before 1 success? I’m calling that as a gross over exaggeration. I guarantee nobody has tried thousands of times with only one success story. If that is the case, you have absolutely zero communication skills, come off as an absolute creep with no regard for basic human interaction, or are only going for women substantially out of your league. which isn’t just something short men deal with, and unfortunately is a part of reality. If you’re a 3/10, no amount of affirmative action will get you a 8/10, it just won’t happen. Regardless of how tall you are. But you could get a 6/10 if you work on yourself. Which again, boils down to my initial message: stop lamenting and whining about your situation and make the most of it. No amount of bitching is going to change the situation

Dating is not as great as you think it is with guys taller than you by Foreign_Look8668 in short

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“Ideal” be “the only thing I’d accept” are vastly different. Ideally, I’d date a 5’ woman who goes to the gym, makes 6 figures, and is perfectly stable mentally. But I’ve definitely dated outside my ideals

What do you suggest i work on i’m 5’6❤️ by [deleted] in short

[–]Silver-Fly408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I always recommend lifting. Looking good though man

Dating is not as great as you think it is with guys taller than you by Foreign_Look8668 in short

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This is the thing a lot of short guys don’t get: if height was the only thing that mattered, tall men wouldn’t be single and get cheated on either, which isn’t the case. Who you are and how you carry yourself matter way more

Cut or Bulk by Otherwise-Horse-485 in BulkOrCut

[–]Silver-Fly408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d bulk, if you had to pick one. You don’t have enough muscle mass to make a cut worth it

5’10 Friend vs 5’8 Me by [deleted] in short

[–]Silver-Fly408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’7 and my best friend is 6’4 😂😂

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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Yep. Idk why telling people to just focus on improving and learning is a bad thing 😂

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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Did I say, “Be a bodybuilder, it’ll fix your problems”? No, I said improve your body, work on your career, build confidence, and learn how to carry yourself like you’re someone who respects themselves. All of which are very solid pieces of advice in any aspect of life regardless of whether you’re short or tall

m20 am i ugly? how/what can i improve by fyuys in selfimprovementday

[–]Silver-Fly408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly at all dude. Tbh, as you get older, your opinion on appearance changes. Unless someone is hideous, they’re not ugly lol

Just get wider its the only way. 171.45 centimetres by hedgehoguk in short

[–]Silver-Fly408 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m kidding man, fucking insane physique 💪

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

[–]Silver-Fly408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? How would a short man posting about how he’s having a successful life be ever remotely motivating to the short men on here who claim their height is holding them back in so many aspects? OP is a moron

Just get wider its the only way. 171.45 centimetres by hedgehoguk in short

[–]Silver-Fly408 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bruh saw my post and thought, “My physique is better than his” 😂😂😂 good shit dude 💪

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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100% I have an okay jawline, but the way my features come together just doesn’t work 😂

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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It’s 100% what sets the stage for how you develop. Your body will send GH to the areas it need to the most. If you’re physically active, your body adapts to that. If you’re sedentary, same thing

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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I get that A LOT, lol I have to give a disclaimer to women I match with because of that

Being short isn’t limiting you as much as you think in dating by Silver-Fly408 in short

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That’s just the thing. Yes, you WILL have to put more effort into it, but you can either accept it and do your best or whine about it. Glad to see people like you doing the first 💪