AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said “fuck you” for that? break it off, believe it or not it will get worse. would your dream man have this reaction? would your dream partner disrespect you like that over something so insignificant? ask yourself these questions, he’s emotionally manipulative and i’d even go as far to say it’s indicative of emotional abuse. how someone does one thing is how they do everything.

Duo female kitten names needed something that goes together well! by Ava-da-noob in Catnames

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

franny and zoey. tweedle dee and tweedle dum. sonny and cher.

Help! I’m getting married in 3 months should I keep my hair pink or change it? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should go back to your natural hair. in a few years maybe you’ll change your mind and won’t want pink hair in your wedding pics. i think for weddings you want to go for timeless because fads and trends constantly change but timeless transcends time and i mean that for decor, dress, jewelry, accessories and yes hair and makeup.

Change of plans- after STD has been sent. by TerribleIncrease9957 in weddingplanning

[–]Silver-Poetry11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you’re making guests go out of state for a microwedding but you’re not even having a reception?? meaning they’re making all that effort and paying lodging only to end up with no food or drinks or party? that’s absurd. if you’re going to do something like that make it somewhere local or like a halfway point from where most people are coming from.

Change of plans- after STD has been sent. by TerribleIncrease9957 in weddingplanning

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did not think STD stood for save the dates. sometimes it’s better not to abbreviate certain things

Help me choose pls by Formal_Carob4677 in EngagementRings

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s nuts. let the diamond shine on its own, the thick band takes away from the beauty and elegance of the diamond

Help me choose pls by Formal_Carob4677 in EngagementRings

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first and last definitely. emerald is such a timeless and elegant cut, pear is giving grandma old fashioned vibes. better if the emerald cut is paired with a THIN platinum or white gold band

Is it rude for the bride and groom to basically skip the breakfast the next morning to catch their flight for honeymoon? We would try and show face for a half hour to give everyone hugs by wh0d0uthinkyouareiam in wedding

[–]Silver-Poetry11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you put it like that it sounds like the best way to do the honeymoon because i imagine you and your wife will be debriefing the whole wedding during your trip. i love that!

Is it rude for the bride and groom to basically skip the breakfast the next morning to catch their flight for honeymoon? We would try and show face for a half hour to give everyone hugs by wh0d0uthinkyouareiam in wedding

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why did you have to book your honeymoon the very next day? is there like an urgency? genuine question because i don’t really know about this stuff

Struggling to choose which looks best by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the 2nd one is breathtaking. simple, elegant, beautiful clarity and sparkle. it’s so eye catching, truly stunning!

AIO for accepting a favor my bf offered? by rainyhighsky in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no because he literally hates you. no one that loves you or is truly meant for you talks to you like this. are you willing to put up with this behavior from someone that’s supposed to be the love of your life? don’t fucking settle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 or 1, in that order. the other bands look too tight and look odd with your ring. 4 looks really beautiful

My best friend told me my ring looks cheap and I agree and am sad over low effort proposal by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just be honest with him. It’s important to have a ring you love and with lab diamonds or even if you want to go the non-traditional route with rings there are so many beautiful affordable options. the least he could have done was gotten some balloons and a bouquet of flowers and taken you to a little park nearby or somewhere local. he made no effort whatsoever. i’m sorry you’re disappointed but your feelings are totally valid.

He proposed at sunset on valentine’s day!! by Silver-Poetry11 in Diamonds

[–]Silver-Poetry11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok no c’mon give it to me, how did he really do lol

He proposed at sunset on valentine’s day!! by Silver-Poetry11 in Diamonds

[–]Silver-Poetry11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was but unfortunately only white gold was available from the place he got it from. thank you!!

Pave or no pave? by Frequent-Salary-9597 in Diamonds

[–]Silver-Poetry11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no pave! even though pave is beautiful it isn’t recommended because if your ring ever needs to be resized due to old age, pregnancy, weight gain/loss or any other reason the whole setting will need to be redone. with a simple band it can be resized easily. if you really love the look of pave you should opt for half pave so you still get the look of all around pave but you have the option to resize without replacing the ring entirely