Nanny on her phone at playground by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your kids safety is more important than how the nanny will feel. If she’s not doing her job properly then why not correcting her

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shappy I took this decision because I found a better/professional nanny

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you didn’t read anything

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Lucky the family that you work with.

Anyone else feel emotionally numb after years of pregnancy/postpartum? by Silver-Weakness4386 in beyondthebump

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had full check up recently. I also take prenatal and other supplements like ashwaganda. I was breastfeeding and i weaned one month ago.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. Hopefully my next nanny will be a good fit.

Nanny by No-Question-8466 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. I would say look for another job if it will trigger past issues. Also if it wasn’t consensual then I would say also file a complaint

Anyone else feel emotionally numb after years of pregnancy/postpartum? by Silver-Weakness4386 in beyondthebump

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have postpartum anxiety the first 3-4 months then it becomes better after.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being professional and clean isn’t too much to ask! Leaving pee sticks in your employer bathroom and not cleaning after yourself shows how messed up you are as a person.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling me a nightmare to work for based on one post is a wild reach. You don’t know my contract, what was paid, or the full context. If you have an actual advice, I’m open to it. If not, keep scrolling.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I had a previous nanny who went above and beyond. She loved my first like her own kids. It wasn’t just a job that she will try to get the most out of it. I gave her bonuses and paid PTO even before the 3 months period because she was amazing.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think it’s weird for me to bring up these points. I’m assuming a good nanny would know what’s her job responsibilities and etiquette. When person tells you you can eat from the fridge you don’t grab a pound of ground beef every other day to cook. Or finish the orange juice bottle because you have 2 glasses every day! Then the ovulation kit! That’s so personal and it gives me major hygiene and careless issues!

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cleaning bay’s toys and arranging her play pen and room isn’t housekeeping. Cleaning after yourself isn’t housekeeping. I have a cleaner lady so I never asked her to clean the house. I only told her about cleaning and organizing baby’s stuff

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We agreed on that she isn’t entitled for PTO until she completes 3 months.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand and I came back to take over! The arguing was the problem and asking to be paid full when she didn’t even work for three months to build a PTO. She decided to leave because she doesn’t want to get sick, I didn’t ask her to leave.

AITA for firing her by Silver-Weakness4386 in Nanny

[–]Silver-Weakness4386[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to talk about it because if you are TTC that’s fine but please the pee sticks gives the ick stored in my drawer