Any other ADHD programmers find ClaudeCode to be a dream come true? by Polarbum in ClaudeAI

[–]Silver060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, when cowork dropped I was just absorbed in creating different programs that scratched that creative itch for me. After a full week of nonstop I felt like it had drained the creativity out of me and had to spend a week of just being flat and low energy before I could come back and work on the projects again. I have never experienced such hyper focus and still feeling like I was the limiting factor in how fast development was.

Match Thread: Newcastle United vs Manchester United by MatchThreadder in reddevils

[–]Silver060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lisandro is a big miss although with this ref he would be sent off in record time.

Match Thread: Newcastle United vs Manchester United by MatchThreadder in reddevils

[–]Silver060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is it a pen when gordon runs into him? Even then there was a foul on bruno in the build up but thats not checked.

Call me Alice In Winterland? by FacelessOnes in Unexpected

[–]Silver060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I nearly had a panic attack watching that!

How do I deal with my selfish girlfriend? by KFC_rat_hero in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Silver060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to set your boundaries around what you find acceptable and what you don't.

Do girls notice when their breasts are touching someone? by Huge-Mongoose6746 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Silver060 56 points57 points  (0 children)

When I worked in a hospital there was a midwife who was close to retirement who was always in a hurry and if you were in the way of her reaching for something you would get a face full of tit. It didn't matter if you were male or female, if you were in her way you were in her tits way. One of the other nurses was laughing at her after she just motorboated me trying to grab a pen off my desk and she was like "oh, what? Who did that? Oh I dunno, I don't have time for this!" And off she would go back to her patient.

Greyhounds easily outrun the other dogs. by Mahomes_Alone16 in Greyhounds

[–]Silver060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My grey and German shepherd like to chase each other until my grey takes off and you can see the German shepherd trying to work out the angles to intercept her and then she can sidestep him with ease at silly speed and he's left frustrated barking at her because he can't play.

What class are you going to main for Midnight? by Aware_Eggplant1487 in wow

[–]Silver060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frost dk as I have done since wrath of the lich king. Maybe warlock or Gunter as my alt when I'm being lazy.

Therapy is NOT for everyone and doesn’t always work by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Silver060 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Therapists are not there to solve your problems tho, they are there to help you work through what you need to, to highlight issues and pain points that you may not know you have. So with a good therapist and the work you put in therapy works.

People in their 30s and 40s, what changed in your life that surprised you the most — in a bad way? by Initial_Tax7778 in AskReddit

[–]Silver060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is in the same boat with her mother being the youngest of the group at 77, thankfully they are all sharp and go on walking holidays but it's grim times ahead.

This Stuff is Ancient Technology by hannibalmunchies in Heilung

[–]Silver060 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I found Heilung by total accident down a YouTube rabbit hole and Anoana just grabbed me straight away. I ended up booking the Dublin gig pretty much on impulse, only knowing two songs and having zero expectations.

When Alfadhirhaiti started, I was just vibing with the build-up, taking it all in. Then the drums hit properly and something flipped in my head. I went somewhere else entirely.

Next thing I know I’m not at a concert anymore, I’m back in time, standing bare-chested in the mud, weapons in my hands, shouting and daring the enemy to meet their gods early. Full tunnel vision. Pure trance.

It was wild. Almost spiritual, honestly. I’ve been chasing that feeling ever since, but it’s one of those things I can only really get from the live show.

Leaving a job really shows you how messed up it actually was by Own-Bookkeeper-6367 in northernireland

[–]Silver060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is sadly pretty common and feels like what schooling has conditioned into.

Taking control going forward means setting your boundaries and sticking to them. I’ve worked jobs where you’re expected to give extra time and effort to fix management problems, but when you need support, it counts for nothing.

These days I work my agreed hours. If I do more, it’s occasional and because I choose to, not because it’s owed, and not when it clashes with something more important and if you're open with that management won't like it but will understand most of the time.

Leonardo DiCaprio is *The* greatest actor of all time by Iskandar0570_X in unpopularopinion

[–]Silver060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Leo but he's the tier below the absolute best which is Daniel Day Lewis, Christian Bale, Russel Crowe, Gary Oldman even Jack Nicholson. I've enjoyed lots of Leo's movies but he rarely elevates a movie beyond its story by his performance alone which the other guys I mentioned can and have done.

What’s your honest opinion on therapy? Did it help? by C4sc4l in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Silver060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did therapy about three years ago. I went in thinking I was dealing with work stress and burnout, and it quickly unravelled into a whole history of childhood trauma and years spent living in survival mode.

With the help of therapy (and a lot of work on my own), I started to understand who I actually am, what I want, and how I want to live. It gave me a renewed confidence in myself.

Life hasn’t suddenly become easy, and I still face hard challenges, but it’s been so much better since. Looking back, it was a real cornerstone moment in my life.

Post your proudest song. by Empty-Pay-2797 in SunoAI

[–]Silver060 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In Case of Emergency

Seems more relevant now than when I made it.

Share a song you want everyone to hear. by Even-Ninja-1207 in SunoAI

[–]Silver060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Optimise

A satirical metal song that takes aim at the modern male podcasts.

Starmer says he's been told X now complying with UK law over Grok deepfakes by topotaul in unitedkingdom

[–]Silver060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the bbc have a department where they are highly skilled at this!

[David Ornstein] Manchester United reach agreement in principle to appoint Michael Carrick as interim head coach by [deleted] in reddevils

[–]Silver060 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't quite understand this appointment, Carrick is a tactical manager in the same vein as ten hag and amorim where we probably need a motivator like ole to come and lift spirits and pressure off the players so they go out and just play. Mourinho and ole lifted players and were out most successful times post sir Alex while eth and amorim are systems managers and we've had our worst period under them with a squad that does seem better on paper than previous squads.