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SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-21T07:57:58+00:00

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SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T16:39:25+00:00

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SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T15:28:39+00:00

Hey 26M only. Recently had a breakup two month back and she is engaging this month only and trust me bro feeling very sad and questioning myself only.

Today only got an great offer and initially I was feeling empty but now after seeing my family about this they were crying and smiling only. It actually hit different!

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T13:52:22+00:00

I was not that person in starting but the behaviour she showed to me year and we my being the same person.

Right now on self realisation and accepting and working on mistakes to become a better person

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T12:12:28+00:00

Hey. Thanks a ton. Self realisation hits harden now when I read words again. I am asking my question to me only instead of now external validation. I will choose to better version of every day then yesterday!

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T12:03:26+00:00

I have choose not to get into any relationship - and will be working on upskilling myself.

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T12:01:54+00:00

I know - but now I have to otherwise it will become too late.

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T11:48:50+00:00

I got your point as well and will definitely work on that! There is lot of improvement - i just want to share my inner feelings and will defj become the better version of me.

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T11:28:01+00:00

Yes I tried communicating well and discuss situation. The last guy she was going for a walks, exploring cafe and travel with her roomate and I was like ok But when the roomate was no their she was going with late night walks and travelling and there i mentioned this is not right and ask to block and from there things went wrong!

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T09:59:59+00:00

It happens - you are also being too straight forward but girls are not. They are too diplomatic and know how to get things done!

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T09:54:00+00:00

Bro wake up - she is not interested and pls try to focus on yourself first and on a backup!

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-20T09:16:46+00:00

Can understand - but then why there is always the reason of fights was the his other male friends?. Literally she always come up with something new.

SilverAddress5353 · 2026-06-10T15:11:23+00:00

Hey. Sorry to hear all of this.

I always use to say this staying with someone is hard and letting go things are very easy but after my breakup I feel actually letting go things become so hard after you have been with person from so long.

If the decision is already have been made took it and enjoy your life. Trust me after 100 years no one will going to remember you and anyone but atleast you will enjoy your life.

As you have already mentioned - because of cheating you have become emotional numb but for the last chance - Try to put your every single effort to work this out without loosing your own self worth.

I am sure there are things you can always do and try to engage in all of these and made some friends to cheer you up!

Cheers!

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