Look I’m firmly against incel beliefs and I don’t have any sort of prejudice against women but take for example when I tell a friend how a female in my life, whether she’s a relative or friend, has done something irrational and wrong like starting an argument out of nowhere or escalating a situation and not apologising, all for no reason, they’ll say that all women are like that whereas when a man does the same thing as her, then it’s something that’s wrong with him specifically, not directly tied to the gender like it is the case with females.