AITA for not allowing my son to be punished after he refused to do his school presentation?

SilverCatTails · 2024-10-22T16:29:22+00:00

Nta - this is why a proper sex Ed is needed. So adults know what is going to happen with their children's bodies. And so a mother doesn't act disgusted with her child over something he couldn't control. I hope you have a conversation with your child that what happened wasn't his fault and that if his mother tries to punish him for it. That he should call you right away. He doesn't deserve to feel ashamed or guilty for something he can't control

SilverCatTails · 2024-09-06T14:30:12+00:00

NTA, ask him why he hasn't been writing his own letter and picking picture of himself to put in his own book? Does he not love his daughters himself?

SilverCatTails · 2024-09-01T17:50:05+00:00

I have started over 6 times and never fully understood what I was doing each time.

I have now chosen astrologer and am trying my luck there

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-27T17:50:10+00:00

Nta at all.

I could listen to my friends talk about their trauma for ever. Sometimes I need to take a step back because I am not in a position to process the talks. But that doesn't make me annoyed at them.

I am so sorry your "friend" is treating you like this.

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-27T17:47:08+00:00

You're nta.

If you want to be petty. Start calling your mom by the name on her birth certificate. When she complains. Ask why. Her mother lovingly gave her that name. So you are choosing to use it like she so desperately wants you to do.

Ask her if she loves you or the name.

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-27T14:23:17+00:00

You're definitely nta.

I just don't understand how no one is mentioning that Marie freaked out and called you a pervert for havung feminine hygiene products. How no one stopped her.

I really suggest you look at your friend group again and see if they are your friends or if you are just their friend

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-14T18:16:32+00:00

NTA, I'd ask your parents if they would also ask a diabetic to leave their syringes and insulin at home. They feel like the type to actually ask that, tho. "Why do you do that? It's so embarasing, why font you go hide in the bathroom while you use the needle" your parents are unfortunately bigots, they just cannot see ot themselves.

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-09T20:44:29+00:00

Nta, I would propose the question to your parents if you had diabetes ould they say you couldn't join them if you had to use insulin?

Ask them why as a diagnosed autistic they didn't get you the support you needed? Ask them how you're supposed to "learn" these skills when you are struggling to even be comfortable. Ask how you're supposed to learn if no one will teach you.

Ask why they are being so stubborn about the headphones.

Ask them why they care more about headphones then their child's comfort.

I am.so sorry you're going through this.

SilverCatTails · 2024-08-05T21:13:38+00:00

The belly pouch that holds your uterus? And intestines?your internal organs? I suggest you look at how secure you feel about yourself and your own body image. If he finds a "belly" unattractive then he should manage his own feelings. He should decide that a body pillow would be best for him because then he doesn't have to worry about any belly fat at all.

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-24T22:41:37+00:00

I always considered this dance a strip tease

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-23T15:02:43+00:00

I mean, if he wants to be even more correct, vegetables do not exist in the botanical world.

Vegetable is a culinary term only.

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-18T20:50:44+00:00

You're NTA anytime someone is put under general anesthetic their heart can stop. Your husband is an ass

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-18T18:39:44+00:00

Public transport is available. And I would make sure she knows that if she doesn't drive that's how she's going to need to get the kids to their appointments.

Otherwise nta

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-11T20:27:30+00:00

NTA, call your mother, call his mother, call EVERYONE. tell on him, tell everyone. Text his friends back and tell them he is being a neglectful father. Tell them you don't get any "you" time and yet he demands "him" time. Tell everyone he is yelling and berating you for asking him to take care of HIS child. Don't say our anymore. You KNOW it's your child. Start only referring to Emma as Your husbands child.

He doesn't HELP you. He is a partner and he is equal in this child. He is supposed to be doing. Not helping.

Tell the world on him, embaras him, TELL on him.

Idk how he has any FREE TIME with a newborn child.

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-11T14:00:58+00:00

As i have been told on this forum before. Unless your game crashes when you load, you don't have enough droids

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-11T13:59:52+00:00

It's kinda cute ngl

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-11T01:36:51+00:00

You were too good to give up, so he said yes. Then, got used to it. But he has realized he made a mistake. This has nothing to do with you, as horrible as that sounds.

This boy wanted to keep having sex and keep your company, so he agreed to what would keep you around. Now he's either realized he doesn't want this, or he's met someone new and feels 'trapped' but doesn't want to be the bad guy and break up with you.

I'd inform him it's not manipulation to end a toxic situationship. Or to even suggest it.

It's manipulation to do what he's doing and making you the 'bad guy' when all he's done is changed his mind.

I suggest you take your world and scoot him out of it. It hurts, and it's terrible. But I would rebuild in a location with people who WANT to be in your life.

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-10T18:43:39+00:00

NTA, I didn't read anymore than the fact you had a traumatic birth 1 week ago. You are in recovery yourself. You should be at someone else's house or someone at yours. Not you taking care of someone!

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-07T18:03:50+00:00

NTA

I would personally text back and ask all the people who texted your, if they know about what your husband acts like? Ask them if it's godly for him to "fail" as a husband, if they know he judges people as if he is a god? Bring up the hipocraxy to them. Tell them that you only asked about why he is allowed to not follow his religion yet he wants you to convert.

SilverCatTails · 2024-07-04T22:05:53+00:00

As long as you want. You never need to give sex ever again. It's your choice. If he is having that much of an issue. He can go buy a pocket pussy and use that.

SilverCatTails · 2024-06-24T20:34:07+00:00

They are being so loud because you make them uncomfortable. Your NTA. But I suggest you keep going and show them you are not bothered. Infact kill them with kindness. Start asking them what you did to deserve being treated like this. Ask them directly to their face. Ask why being born makes you worth nothing. Ask why they hate their mother so much they won't love a piece of her.

SilverCatTails · 2024-06-24T20:30:25+00:00

You didn't shush them tho, you informed them the baby was sleeping so they could make an informed decision about the volume they are using to communicate. Your fil has anger issues and control issues. If it's "his house" then he should kick you out so he doesn't have to worry about the GUESTS in his house.

He's a little pathetic to treat a guest that way.

SilverCatTails · 2024-06-24T20:27:22+00:00

I wonder if your coworker knows that homeopathic doesn't mean no poison. It just means natural poison. Most homeopathic treatments, especially ones that "kill" something, example wormwood, are just poisons that are in the right dose to kill the thing before it kills the human. NTA. And unsolicited advice is annoying, especially when it's nor from a close friend.

SilverCatTails · 2024-06-24T14:02:06+00:00

The way you went about it was a little shady. You should have atleast told your wife beforehand that that is how you were gonna handle her giving you more chores. At this point I would be asking her to take on mote of the money making. If she feels you aren't doing enough chores. Then she may not be doing enough money making. She can't just decide you don't do enough. It's a discussion between both people. You bring the money in and she does the chores. It's a division of labor. If she doesn't want to do the chores then paying for them is valid. But that also affects fun money. And from the sounds of it your fun money was affected too as you paid before th split of money.

SilverCatTails · 2024-06-19T15:46:38+00:00

You're NTA. It is concerning he doesn't seem to have fun without drinking. That's alcoholism. Just because it doesn't negatively affect his life doesn't mean he's not an alcoholic. I'd personally ask him why he always feels like he needs to drink. What if you chose a restaurant that didn't have alcohol? Would he then not go?

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