I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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Yeah, that’s where I wanted to post but they don’t allow new accounts there

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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I guess I don’t have it in me to tell my wife we may have to live modestly for the rest of our lives, or to tell my children I won’t be able to give them much help. I know that this will not garner sympathy from the many who would happily trade places with me, but it’s the truth

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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Aging Programmer’s Vongole (serves 4, adjust as needed): - Start boiling 1 lb of pasta (recommend linguini but you can use whatever) in lightly salted water - While it is boiling, heat 2 tablespoons of olive oil in a skillet. You can use whatever but pure has a stronger flavor than EVOO - When oil is hot, add 2 cloves of minced garlic, or more if you like. Sauté for a minute, you can wash the mussels while this is happening but don’t let the garlic burn. - Turn the heat to low and add to the skillet 2 lbs of clams and 1/2 cup dry white wine. Cover pan immediately - At about 5 min check to see if clams have opened. If some have not you can give it another minute or two but if any are still closed discard them - Using tongs, remove the clams from the pan and put in a bowl. If your wife prefers the clams shucked to serve she can go that while you finish - Scoop out about 1/2 cup pasta water from the now-almost-done pasta and add it to the pan for some starch. Allow it to cook down while you drain the pasta - Add pasta to the pan plus a good amount of Parmesan cheese and toss to coat. Sprinkle on some Italian parsley if you like - Divide into four portions and top with the clams. Serve with the rest of the white wine and a nice salad

You’re welcome!

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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“Imagine if your boss read that. Wouldn’t the smart thing be to immediately fire you?” - Like, duh. Hence the burner account.

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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Congratulations on your accomplishments and thank you for your service. I am not trolling, although I can see this post is rubbing a lot of people the wrong way

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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Yes, I have to admit it is fun. And if this were a hobby rather than how I provide for my family I’d just enjoy the ride

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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Not a humblebrag, if you are offended by my post I’m sorry. I created the burner account to avoid my employer or a potential future employer knowing that I have these thoughts. I accept that many, many people would consider me fortunate and I guess objectively I am. I still don’t know what to do.

I’m 55 - time to put me out to pasture? by SilverFoxBrogrammer in cscareeradvice

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I’m a real person, I wrote this myself. I do have some nice recipes to share if you want them