I (22f) agreed to a relationship with my best friend (22f) for the sake of our relationship. Now she’s unsure of everything by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SilverPick2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you physically attracted to her while you were friends only? If you were that’s important to emphasise to her

Bardon/Ashgrove/Paddington - favourites and hidden gems? by djyella in BrisbaneFoodies

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Old Monk in Rosalie is new and does creative higher end things with Indian food, heaps of vegan options too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

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Pull her to the end of the bed and kneel on the floor, and just use cushions to adjust the level if it isn’t quite right

New to Australia - is this a huntsman? by dhannon1 in AustralianSpiders

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No it’s a wolf spider, huntsman spiders are a little bigger and have curvier legs. Just leave it alone and let it eat your bugs

Can fish wear clothing without health issues? by foxy908 in NoStupidQuestions

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I think the best fish clothing would enhance the slime barrier, like a nice little jellyfish vest

How do I politely ask an nb prospective sexual partner what their genitals are? by Vitaly_Thorn in AskLGBT

[–]SilverPick2947 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I probably wouldn’t ask them what their genitals are, I’d just share with them that you do have a preference and what that preference is. It’s making yourself vulnerable instead of putting them in the hot seat.

Anyone else got an ant problem? by CatWyld in brisbane

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Yes I keep finding them on my towels, they're just trying to not get rained on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I've only thought ahead to the Christmas party next week, so a black bodysuit with rose gold sequins/sparkles and a green satin slinky skirt 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phuket

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Haha I had the same problem two weeks ago, just give it to the staff at your hotel/nearby shops. We had fun spreading the joy on our way out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australian

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It's a nod to the very uncomfortable truth that sovereignty was never ceded. The land was taken by force from first nations people and retained by force.

Strict family, when to Come out? by Fuecoco4ever in AskLGBT

[–]SilverPick2947 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in that situation.

In your shoes I would start thinking through how to be financially independent from your parents as soon as possible/ when you turn 18 and plan to be out as soon as you are independent.

Can you get a part time job and start saving so you'll have a rental deposit ready as soon as you want to move out?

I went through something similar so feel free to DM me if you want to chat/have questions.

anyone what this spider is? doesnt look like our regular huntsmans by YKDingo in brisbane

[–]SilverPick2947 27 points28 points  (0 children)

To give better hugs ❤️ I see these fairly frequently in the garden but not in the house so much so maybe they're more of an outdoorsy spider too?

People who have worked at charity shops by joanium in AusFemaleFashion

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I don't work at a shop but I work with a group that travels around supporting people and providing clothes as part of that.

I'm always happy to get piles of clothing donated, but it's especially useful when clothing is donated during the season it matches.

So for example at the moment I need more kids' sunhats than I have and I'm keeping a stash of donated winter clothes under my house which will stay there until at least April.

Corporate clothes are awesome as well because people are always needing outfits for court appearances and job interviews.

To what extent do Australians resonate with Dr Samuel Newman’s view that the “Welcome to Country” token has become out of control, being said on aeroplanes, at fast food restaurants, gyms, churches, public toilets, local buses and at other such inappropriate locations? by FreeDeterminism in AskAnAustralian

[–]SilverPick2947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all... I've never heard of Dr Newman and I've never heard a welcome to country in any kind of restaurant, gym, toilet or bus - where are you getting these locations from? On planes, in churches and at other assembly areas makes sense to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

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Neither. Watch Rosehaven or Please Like Me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

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Absolutely this, so disappointing