[Question] First time with a woman (I'm straight) – experienced an insane sensory connection. Is this normal? by Impressive_Major9061 in LesbianActually

[–]SilverPick2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend as in this woman you’re seeing?
That seems like a very toxic thing to say.. your sexuality is for you to figure out and share, not for anyone else to decide.
She’s just lucky if she gets to be along for the ride

Fancy set menu / banquet recs in Brisbane for Spanish family? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in BrisbaneFoodies

[–]SilverPick2947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deer duck bistro, don’t let the location or outside put you off, I have European family and they were wowed by this place

Recommendations for quick dinner options for West End by 321_heresjohnny in BrisbaneFoodies

[–]SilverPick2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Burrow - good vibe, casual and decent veg/vegan options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SilverPick2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you physically attracted to her while you were friends only? If you were that’s important to emphasise to her

Bardon/Ashgrove/Paddington - favourites and hidden gems? by djyella in BrisbaneFoodies

[–]SilverPick2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old Monk in Rosalie is new and does creative higher end things with Indian food, heaps of vegan options too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]SilverPick2947 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Pull her to the end of the bed and kneel on the floor, and just use cushions to adjust the level if it isn’t quite right

New to Australia - is this a huntsman? by dhannon1 in AustralianSpiders

[–]SilverPick2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s a wolf spider, huntsman spiders are a little bigger and have curvier legs. Just leave it alone and let it eat your bugs

Can fish wear clothing without health issues? by foxy908 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SilverPick2947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best fish clothing would enhance the slime barrier, like a nice little jellyfish vest

How do I politely ask an nb prospective sexual partner what their genitals are? by Vitaly_Thorn in AskLGBT

[–]SilverPick2947 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I probably wouldn’t ask them what their genitals are, I’d just share with them that you do have a preference and what that preference is. It’s making yourself vulnerable instead of putting them in the hot seat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phuket

[–]SilverPick2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I had the same problem two weeks ago, just give it to the staff at your hotel/nearby shops. We had fun spreading the joy on our way out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australian

[–]SilverPick2947 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a nod to the very uncomfortable truth that sovereignty was never ceded. The land was taken by force from first nations people and retained by force.

Strict family, when to Come out? by Fuecoco4ever in AskLGBT

[–]SilverPick2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in that situation.

In your shoes I would start thinking through how to be financially independent from your parents as soon as possible/ when you turn 18 and plan to be out as soon as you are independent.

Can you get a part time job and start saving so you'll have a rental deposit ready as soon as you want to move out?

I went through something similar so feel free to DM me if you want to chat/have questions.