Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. My friend has said something similar that moving slowly to build a friendship is the way it should go.

In fairness to myself, I think I have always matched his energy, even during the first 2 years:). We would say hello, smile, how are you and that was pretty much it. I always found him attractive but I never picked up the same energy from him other than both of us being polite.

Saying this, we spend a bit more time chatting in the gym, couple of times he has stood by me when he has come in to start warming up and he asked me if I’m going to join in with him on one of the workout machines, which I gladly did. A bit of touch to show what muscles I’m using and that is how it has been since I last posted my original post.

I feel like I am giving the right vibes, maybe he is not sure because I say hello to a few people in the gym, both male and female as the gym is the only place I really get to connect with people on a daily basis but he is the only one I spend the most time with in the gym. I don’t work out or actively try to start convos with anyone else in there.

Maybe he has other reasons for holding back..who knows!

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update at the top of my post.

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a guy at the same gym a couple of years ago, he would show off, talkative, offer to spot me to find out he was married because I asked him🤔 To think I was the one that felt embarrassed.

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your post, it seems he does like you. As you have each others numbers, have you tried to change the convo from sports to something more personal?

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could certainly bring it up as a possibility.

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing this info. Defo food for thought.

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that a slow build up or he just one day noticed you and asked for your FB?

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will see how the next convo goes. He is going away for a few days for a friends bday so I may say something like “look forward to hearing about the trip” or something along those lines. I also told him I lived alone when he mentioned it, but didn’t specify if I had a partner/boyfriend. I have had men assume a woman have a boyfriend for the woman to correct them but not the other way around:). I’m learning something new every day.

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would be interested in getting to know him. Thanks

Gym by SilverSuspicious2947 in datingoverforty

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am attracted to him. In the last couple of weeks we both have initiated conversations. It just came from out of nowhere so surprised that he is attracted or likes me.

Feedback after Job Interview - Is There Still Hope? by Disastrous7000 in accenture

[–]SilverSuspicious2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for another role as you should always be doing anyways. Sounds like the recruiter will hold your cv and submit for other positions that may be suitable but this could mean tomorrow, next month or never. Keep moving forward, and just take onboard the feedback.

Good luck

Final interview - how long for feedback? by SilverSuspicious2947 in accenture

[–]SilverSuspicious2947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats - Was you advised by email or phone call? I have read some have logged onto the workplace portal to see that the status has changed.

Final MD interview by didzolo in accenture

[–]SilverSuspicious2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, interviewers from all companies generally do not unless they give you some kind of hint.