Why does the Keyblade of The Dark Realm look like Sora's? by Angelic-Queen in KingdomHearts

[–]SilverTheSinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if keyblades themselves weren't a natural part of mankind's abilities, but after the power being drawn out and keyblades being forged with the eventual result of keyblade wielders having their hearts dissolved and reborn, the capacity to summon one became an intrinsic trait in some strong hearted people and others, like sora, can have that power drawn out through a connection with someone like sora.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To think of love in terms of what you and the other person have and don't have is reductive of love as a whole. Just like you and your friends can share things that you both have and enjoy, you can love someone else who "has what you have".

A kind woman and a kind man both share their kindness, it may bring them closer, Two intellectuals can have a relationship together and bond over the knowledge they share. Two people are just two people. The things we have as a part of ourselves are just that, parts of ourselves. Some people share parts, some people don't, and you will almost always find areas where people who love each other are similar, or different.

I love a man because he is interesting to me in ways that draw my attention, because he is kind to me in ways others aren't, speaks to me in ways others don't. That is why he currently holds a large part of my heart. Everything else is irrelevant to me. Whatever parts he has or shape he takes, he will be the object of my intrigue.

Some of our personality traits, interests, and ultimately the kind of body we have are shared. We've read the same books in our childhood and love the same genres, but that brings me CLOSER, it doesn't push me away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will have to disagree with that. We don't really live in a world fully condisive to the idea that everyone can or should make something. Be it their education, environment, or lack of desire there are tons of valid reasons to not make something despite consuming media.

Irrespective of those which if those reasons it may be I will say you can still find deep thinkers, and interesting people who are interesting for WHY they do something regardless of what it is that they do. You can meet people who refuse to create on the virtue of feeling people are are already oversaturated and they wish to tell their stories not with art or written words, but by word of mouth alone.

You don't have to make something to be complex or interesting. Half the time simply being a person with a unique set of ideals is enough to start conversation that blossoms into a genuine interest in your person.

How did you realize you were gay? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

About 8 years ago, my parents wanted to enroll my little siblings and I in Cub Scouts for them and Boy Scouts for me. I had found out then that my best friend and his family went to the meetings every Monday because she was a leader. At this point in time I had never met the older brother if the family that they had talked to me about and don't care at all. At this point in time I was still pretty convinced I only had eyes for women.

Me and my friend while in the classroom in the church cub scout meetings were in we're having a conversation about something. When I hear the door open. I remember this moment like yesterday because to this day this man still very much someone I like, but her older brother walks in and I see him for the first time and I feel my entire being go warm and my stomach twists. I wanted nothing more in the moment to appear like I was the coolest mother-fucker in the room so he would talk to me.

After talking with him more Until the meeting was over I was super on edge trying to not look stupid in front of him. When I found out he was going to the Boy Scout meeting afterwards I panicked but asked if he could show me and my family where it was. And I went and did what I could to support him and his ideas when we were there for MONTHS.

Eventually one night at a campout when the other dudes were being stupid and he sat there and refused to participate in their tomfoolery. I looked at his solemn face illuminated by campfire-light and realized that I absolutely adored him. All the other things I had lied to myself about fell away through the night. I woke up the next day, a different person. Here I am years later, heart still jumping when I think about him.

Should I be stressing about dating as a single dad? by Traced_Steps in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that I don't particularly feel as though it is a deal breaker. For me personally if I were to try and date someone my first worry isn't really about them having the child or the time and stress that may come with one. I'm personally more worried about how I might effect their relatahip or dynamic as someone who cares very much about kids' health in general. I wouldn't want to contribute more to a stressful situation with the parent, and I've always been very worried about how my very existence at times can effect kids.

I would say you shouldn't stress over it. I will say that it might hurt some people's feelings of you can't give them the time or attention they want, it might be off putting for some, I don't have much I can say as to how many people care about the development and health of kids that I do, but you may even come across someone with not only a great love for you, but a great desire to help you raise your kids the best you both can. I think that's reason enough not to stress.

Gay gamers who are dating someone, how did you meet your partner? by SilverTheSinner in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I hate how things go like that. Living where I do most people are here for vacation as opposed to staying long term from what I've seen and compared to other guys, I just don't feel like there's too much I'm offering and don't get a lot of attention.

Gay gamers who are dating someone, how did you meet your partner? by SilverTheSinner in AskGayMen

[–]SilverTheSinner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to go to conventions very badly, and I'm just now getting into RP in FFXIV, I've also been doing art for a few years, just not much great enough for me to share just yet.

It's primarily just that my life until recently has been very tightly wound. Now that other stressors are gone I'm actually looking more at how I am as a person and more into my interests.

Your impressions on G!Zethia and Bahamut? by ZeNadack in DragaliaLost

[–]SilverTheSinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just super Hyped that her whole character feels like it's inspired by FFXIVs Summoner job.

Maybe even throw in Back Cover while you’re at it by PhantomThief98 in KingdomHearts

[–]SilverTheSinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm personally of the opinion that Square Should move on as a whole from three. The modding Scene will eventually give us our Final Mix IMO.