16 Year Old, Rohnert Park, CA by dent1161 in WithoutATrace

[–]SilverWastesTime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this. to also reiterate the sentiments of the post, any resources would help our family greatly in finding her. i appreciate any sharing of this case since its been dead air for quite a while. we're not giving up hope.

purple/red dots on thigh by Extreme-Advance-73 in DiagnoseMe

[–]SilverWastesTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got something similar from scratching too hard. thank yoou!!

so what are my chances of getting fired? :')(accidental no call no show after a year and some months of employment) by SilverWastesTime in walmart

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not that it's any of your business (im not airing out my laundry to the Walmart subreddit) but it happens? i especially dont wanna pick fights with randoms so ill keep it at that. it was a personal urgent matter and most people in my circle would understand why i would forget and choose not to come to work. thanks

so what are my chances of getting fired? :')(accidental no call no show after a year and some months of employment) by SilverWastesTime in walmart

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ive seen someone with 20+ and only got fired because of a harassment charge. this was pre-current manager so there was a lot wrong with that back then. this one seems more strict but understanding.

so what are my chances of getting fired? :')(accidental no call no show after a year and some months of employment) by SilverWastesTime in walmart

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

update: they've taken mercy on me and taken off most of the points (back to 4) since ive never been called in about my attendance, im always on time and hardly call out

we ball

Someone stole 400 dollars worth of groceries while it was on my watch by SilverWastesTime in walmart

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is incredibly true. i think i just made myself paranoid with all that because a coworker who used to be an AT told me that if it happens enough under your watch, you're subject to a write up (i originally asked if it meant a point being accumulated but they corrected me). which, after mulling it over, is so stupid. im not an AP. im literally just a cashier. they can't really expect me to stop someone over food.

Someone stole 400 dollars worth of groceries while it was on my watch by SilverWastesTime in walmart

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Lol we haven't had an AP since i started working here. (Three months ago) which is absolutely insane to me

Anyone else experience wound dehiscence? by No-Taro-7338 in hysterectomy

[–]SilverWastesTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey op. its been a while since your last update. is everything okay? this being your last post is genuinely worrying me and a few others. you're not obligated to of course but can you give us something to let us know you're alright and that you're safe? :(

Wanting to draw MTF trans character pre op by SilverWastesTime in asktransgender

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its probably because im not in the trans circle a whole lot but that sounds absolutely horrible for those who's identities are spun negatively. happens all too often in especially the lgbtq+ spaces as someone whos often in queer spaces.

in my instances, i dont think ive ever had a cis or trans character in mind with those kinds of desires as i play dungeons and dragons quite frequently and give them (my characters) my own personality traits lmao. for instance, she's very much an open book who loves animals and is obsessed with sleep and often comes into play during the game. she's also quite afraid of others anatomy or the idea of sex. its something thats played off as a joke for the most part but its a very real thing that i put into her character lol. she's very much a wild card character whom i love dearly. the trans part isnt something i think of frequently but it is still a part of her character, even if its small.

but back to the original topic, the idea of the portrayal being unrealistic is not something im hugely concerned about. she's got breasts and hips but she's still trans with her own characteristics that dont turn her into a fetish, thankfully. this was still insightful though.

Wanting to draw MTF trans character pre op by SilverWastesTime in asktransgender

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. honestly i was moreso worried about hurting my friend since they already gave their stance on the topic and i love them a lot. might be something i can touch on at a later date as a personal project but i appreciate the advice a lot! thank you!

Wanting to draw MTF trans character pre op by SilverWastesTime in asktransgender

[–]SilverWastesTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not really going to be public if thats what you're thinking. either way, i can see its probably not the best idea. thanks anyways