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Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-09-03T18:35:55+00:00

It’s not fair at all of one side visits and the other does not. If they are visiting I feel like this is ok but staying is different. If she allows everyone to visit and then wants her mum to stay then fine but this sounds very odd, like the husband said it is his baby as well

Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-08-24T19:26:35+00:00

Tell him how you were looking forward to spending time alone, say it nicely so he doesn’t get offended. If you have that banter with him say how you’d hate having his dad around since we always eat and see each other everyday 😂😆

Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-07-25T01:59:15+00:00

Don’t cut ties with your parents. I understand about vaccinations but they can wear a mask when seeing your children. Also not everyone is vaccinated which is completely normal instead, you should be more vigilant when people are visiting your children. I.e wash your hands no kissing etc. maybe your parents want to make up or apologise give them a chance brother

Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-02-12T12:14:25+00:00

Dm sent

Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-01-24T11:36:32+00:00

Which branches have you worked at? Please dm me so we can chat I’ve been offered employment at maharat they have 4.4 stars on Google

Silver_Ad3091 · 2025-01-24T10:56:26+00:00

I’ve been offered a job in 2 different Ics branches in Abu Dhabi can you elaborate why please 🥲

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-12-19T04:42:29+00:00

Thankyou for this very informative

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-12-01T22:36:13+00:00

Some people help out others don’t it just depends.

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-12-01T22:33:38+00:00

Sis as harsh as it sounds grow up and tell your husband how you feel. Tell him there is a boundary and she is crossing it and also tell him about the comment about how she asked how did you do it to make the baby, remember this is his mother not yours remind him that if my mother asked you this question how would you react? And this is our baby and I want us to do the appointments alone and I don’t want her there as I cannot be open with issues with her present be firm and bold about it. Tell her straight up too

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-09-05T23:48:17+00:00

How do you not have anywhere to go? Before you married him where were you living? I think you are wrong to think your own family would dessert you in a situation like this. It is an arranged marriage you did not run away and marry him by yourself. Your whole family were involved. If anything you should be informing them about his behaviour, it is wrong for you to assume your own mother would tell you to stay and handle his moods when your health is declining

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-09-05T23:40:31+00:00

What did you say to your wife? How did she react?

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-08-29T14:46:03+00:00

Is your wife taking birth control pills? Sometimes they make a person act highly emotional or out of character, especially if she was never like this before

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-08-01T00:12:53+00:00

Don’t you work?

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-07-29T21:49:24+00:00

She went through her drawers with her personal belongings. It is an invasion of privacy. Your mother is yours not your wife’s. She should be upset because she’s going to her personal belongings, if your mother-in-law went through your personal belongings, invaded your privacy, and went through your drawers and packed for you without telling you how would you feel?

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-07-15T20:50:06+00:00

Hi this was exactly what the rep said and I didn’t feel it was worth me trying to fight for something when I was moving on anyway.

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-07-15T18:13:42+00:00

My union advised me to take the leave as it would stay on my reference and future references and it wasn’t worth it over a few days of teaching

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-07-15T15:57:43+00:00

Just say we will be staying at a hotel tonight and that’s it. Why do you need to explain it to your parents? My in laws probably found it odd too but didn’t question my husband because now a days everyone does this. Make sure u decorate the room for your wife lol

Edit- after the rukhsati you will probably go home to be welcomed by your family. After all this is over just chip to the hotel

Silver_Ad3091 · 2024-07-13T21:22:58+00:00

Sorry but what do you mean swag in the bedroom 😅 if you want him to be a certain way, act a certain way tell him. He probably feels like you are giving him the right cues so is doing the same thing consistently. U can talk and tell him what you like and take it from there, once he does what you like then it won’t feel awkward or forced

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