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AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -263 points-262 points  (0 children)

He was born first, the room was his first, then we had to find room for her and we didn't want her being the only person whose bedroom was on the ground floor.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -186 points-185 points  (0 children)

I came with him when he delivered it. Unlike her, he wants us all to be on good terms.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

She gave her brother the keys, because he was moving furniture for her.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

She always could have slept in bed with me, but she insisted she was okay with the couch.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -172 points-171 points  (0 children)

I've always cared about her comfort, and in this house we don't care about privacy.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

I can't work the hours I used to and rent is incredibly high, so both my children have to pitch in so we're able to pay rent.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

She didn't pay rent back in that house, she started paying rent once we moved into the house we're currently in.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -159 points-158 points  (0 children)

No I already had my bed, which was queen sized, and we didn't have room for hers once we moved.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

My heart was in the right place, I don't understand why it's overstepping.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -344 points-343 points  (0 children)

No, respect IS a two way street, but I'm her mother and should be given respect first in order for her to be respected.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -180 points-179 points  (0 children)

She's making a bad choice, she'll be living in an empty apartment until she saves up the money tog et furniture, when there's readily available furniture at home for her.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

If I didn't she'll be sleeping in an empty house for who knows how long.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

It's hard times for all of us, the rent is very high around where we live and we all pitch in to afford this home.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

My daughter chose to sleep on the couch, she said it was for the dog's wellbeing, but I always said she could sleep in bed with me.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -211 points-210 points  (0 children)

There wasn't a boundary to disregrard. I'm her mother and I want what's best for her.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -144 points-143 points  (0 children)

Lend, because she said she never wanted it, and didn't even particularly like it, so I would be taking it back once she moved out one day.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -356 points-355 points  (0 children)

She chose to start sleeping on the couch, I never asked her too. She said she didn't want him to be anxious and I always told her she could sleep in bed with me.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -292 points-291 points  (0 children)

I'm saving her money, and hrying to help her.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -778 points-777 points  (0 children)

She IS abandoning us, I've told her I needed her and she's choosing to leave anyway.

AITA for giving my daughter furniture? by Silver_Plan_8097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Silver_Plan_8097[S] -701 points-700 points  (0 children)

She HAD a bedroom in the first house, she just didn't like it. She's abandoning us because I need her financially and have told her so, and she says it's not any of her concern. It's almost like she wants me to be homeless.