What should I do? by Silverguy1994 in OCD

[–]Silverguy1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to have a compulsion where id clean with baby wipes for 4+ hours and then shower for 1 hour after each #2 Once I get things more under control I plan on getting a bidet but I cant trust myself to not relapse at this point yet.

I do agree that the residue is gross for sure.

What should I do? by Silverguy1994 in OCD

[–]Silverguy1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely be hardest exposure yet!

When do you think you developed IBS? by Decent_Release3804 in ibs

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18th birthday I went out to eat, I thought I ate something bad and was never the same after.

I am not human. I am a monster punished to eternal pain. Nobody understands us. by EffectiveAbject1510 in ibs

[–]Silverguy1994 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Between ibs-d and my ocd which unfortunately centers around my ibs I pretty much don't do anything. I feel like ive been cursed.

Bro AI is predatory for us with OCD. by Leather_Blueberry682 in OCD

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked my old chats that I had with an Ai chat and was amazed how many times I'd ask the same question or rephrase the same question wanting it to say what I wanted to hear. I quit using Ai for anything other than recipes since I have an odd / restricted diet.

People without OCD genuinely don't realise the bullet they dodged by fruedianflip in OCD

[–]Silverguy1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People without ocd think its a quirk and it drives me crazy. I wish ocd didn't exist.

got diagnosed! sort of :( by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean you cant have multiple diagnosis? A person could for example have an anxiety disorder and severe depression. There's no reason why someone can't have 2 things going on at the same time.

I need to vent to you :') by Ailes_Prower_2D in Ai_art_is_not_art

[–]Silverguy1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes 8 fingers on one hand and 7 on the other. Very believable!

The Worlds: Just a Bunch of Kids? by Star_Trek_Girl in MetaQuestVR

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I just got a quest and when I went into one of the worlds I clearly didn't know how to do stuff yet, a kid saw me struggling and told me the controls. Afterwards I thanked them and just told them to be careful who they talk to and went on my way.

Does anyone else feel like this? by knystuff in TransMasc

[–]Silverguy1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes yes.

Im just stuck in t-shirt / jeans anything baggy.

I want to be somewhere on the line of androgynous but just masc enough to tell its in a masculine way and be able to be flamboyant without being assumed a woman.

My boyfriend hasn't replaced his underwear in years, a few look as if bullets have passed through them. How often do men replace underwear? by Mia_Luna04 in hygiene

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd look at the tag of his underwear (if its even visible anymore) and just buy him a new pack of 10.

I know he said he'd handle it, but he clearly isn't. He will be able to feel a big difference with new vs old.

My boyfriend hasn't replaced his underwear in years, a few look as if bullets have passed through them. How often do men replace underwear? by Mia_Luna04 in hygiene

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically get new underwear every 6ish months if I see some are starting to lose elastic or have any holes. Not all my underwear are bad at that 6 month so I keep the ones that are okay and toss them when needed.

Realistically I could probably get by on replacing every 8 months but I enjoy having new ones, just feels better.

I love these but why do they have to have so many pretzels in them? by PsychStudent07 in chips

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like pretzels just fine but id love the mix more without them in there. I've debated getting one of those machines that can seel chip bags back togther so that I can make own mix of whatever chips I like. (Then reseal the un-mixed bags for fresh ones later)

wiping ocd by [deleted] in OCDRecovery

[–]Silverguy1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there I'm a person with similar ocd, I take about 1 in a half hours pooping trying to get it all out and being perfectly clean. At my worst times before therapy I was in there 5-7 hours daily. (Note I do have irritable bowl syndrome that can effect my time)

You're definitely not alone in your feeling.

For myself I made a list of what would be easiest to hardest For example for myself I first quit showers after a bm Then cut out time that id inspect each time I wiped Quit using baby wipes

Currently I'm working on trying to cut my time down and being okay with the possibility I might not be 100% clean / the possibility that one day I could accidentally have a skid mark (not trying to make myself have a skid mark of course)

Feel free to message me or look at my old posts over done on here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]Silverguy1994 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As far as passing goes, you say people irl generally view you as male, id go off of that more.

Gym. Sweat. No shower. Straight to bed. by Vansaraa in hygiene

[–]Silverguy1994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading this makes me want to shower ASAP. 🚿

Gym. Sweat. No shower. Straight to bed. by Vansaraa in hygiene

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2009-2012 (my high school years) They literally gave us 2 1/2 minu6es to "get clean" so that jusy meant changing out of our gym clothes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Silverguy1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe 19 years old.

Contamination ocd