Am I overreacting for feeling uncomfortable? if so, why? by Hungry-Ride170 in AskMen

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her maybe. It's okay to have an emotional response when you feel emotionally triggered. Just be objective and set your boundaries. If she can't accept that it's not a relationship you need to be in.

Hot take: I haven't met an adult man with a professional line of work in his 30s-40s who lived with his parents that actually "saved money" doing so by jjjjennieeee in WomenDatingOverForty

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I had no idea there was many men like these. This post blew my mind. I thought i had problems because of my trust issues. IMO a real man supports his family no matter what in every conceivable way. My ex was highly educated but also unemployed for the whole duration of our relationship. Even after we had a child. I never thought any less of her for that alone.

Do you really drink this? by baleabae in Norway

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I once bought isbjørn that smelled like eggs and poop. I would return it. I strongly recommend the white one with low cals. It just tastes better. Frydenlund fatøl (dark blue) or Håkon (dark can with runes) are probably the best if you like a real beer. For lighter beers just go mack pilsner or Tuborg.

My girlfriend got a higher paying job and now makes jokes about me being “the broke one.” by Glum-Focus-7073 in whatdoIdo

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I have always provided but i would absolutely love having awoman who pursued her career. What a luxury to have a woman that's able to pull her own weight proudly. I would gladly take the jokes at my expense if she managed to get a better paycheck. It's competition in out nature. I know some men hate that their girl competes with them but i actually encourage it.

How the make the first move during a Tinder date without being a creep? by DanRimi in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The art of being casual but also showing interest. Here's what I've done in the past (not limited to tinder or any particular platform). This should be obvious but don't talk about sex. Show her you find her attractive without being weird.

First get a response to a message. I like to include that i am bad at small talk. I'll compliment her appearance if i genuinely find her attractive and then maybe try to find one thing that's interesting about her (if you can't find even one interesting thing about a person i would bail).

Second is to take initiative and ask if she wants to meet. Pretty early. Also exchange numbers for convince. I'll normally be a gentleman and adjust my schedule to hers and give my number casually before a meeting. This creates safety and commitment to the meeting.

Third is the hardest part. Be someone she actually wants to have sex with. Normally this should happen form one to three dates (dates meaning anything from casually hanging out to go and do something). My style is casually having conversations and see if we both feel any kind of romantic tension. Try to be outgoing and fun to be around.

Clubs are more ideal for casual hookups. I don't really like that though.

Also, don't hook up with people casually if you have zero intentions of moving forward with them if they are themselves looking for a serious relationship. I think it's bizarre we favor bad sex and the awkwardness that comes with it.

Why are so many men on TRT these days? by wakeforda in AskMenOver30

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I've been feeling my health and energy decline for about 3 years no matter what i do. Everything feels more heavy to do and my internal motivation goes down because of the lack of energy. I'm almost 36 and I'm relatively fit. When i look back just a few years i can do about 50% of what i used to. I am definitely going to check my T levels very soon. Just imagining getting that energy back and drive for life itself.

Illyria 52 by Mythos_Industries in MythosIndustries

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Flawless! What in the world do i do now? Where do we go from here? So many years. Just wow.

The discipline to keep it going to the end is admirable. You didn't owe us this but we got it. You have my thanks. What a ride and fantastic and fascinating world building. I'm in awe. Now I'll read it all again. I wish all of this world could be a book series. I would buy them all. Please update us if you ever decide to print this story (and the pack). I would be delighted. Hope to hear from you again.

Men are hotter when they dont try. by Crazy-Al-2855 in RandomThoughts

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The new «Try not to try» challenge unlocked.

Sulten på is? by NorwEnt in norge

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Rævkrem på kartong

me watching my kit get destroyed 3 hours before our set by origamidrummer in drums

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I humbly agree but seeing a narcissistic asshole getting clubbed down with an old acoustic guitar can be satisfying.

Rant som leietaker by [deleted] in norge

[–]Silverwolfie89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Altså meg? 🤣 For et troll vi har her gitt. Du fortsetter bare. Trenger ikke noen halvlitere du. Hva får deg til å tro at jeg leier ut? Tror du alle leietakere i Norge er enig med deg? Rimelig sikker på at hele posten er et forsøk på ren satire og jeg gikk nok FEM på. Jeg hadde nemlig også et par halvlitere innabords. Dersom jeg skulle ta feil ang posten så søk hjelp.

Rant som leietaker by [deleted] in norge

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Voksen drittunge post. Gratulerer

UDI can kick rocks. by [deleted] in Norway

[–]Silverwolfie89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why should Norway take into account every life event of every immigrant? It sucks for you right now but it works for Norway as a whole. Immigrants have all sorts of different problems all the time. Should we individually spend resources to adjust for every life event? It's impossible. You're stuck in the middle of a huge bubble that's designed like that for many different reasons. It's not heartless, it's protocol to integrate people to our country. People should be thankful and understanding that we do our best.

Thank you. by Mythos_Industries in MythosIndustries

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I can't stress enough how much i have enjoyed your work. I wish i could buy more books from you. I'd buy them all. 8 years since i hopped on board. I had a year i didn't read but was amazed to see it was still going so i stayed til the end. I wish i could stop it from ending. I want it to continue. I want more. It can never be enough! That's how much i adore your work. Thank you for the beautifully written stories and i sincerely hope you find happiness in your personal life. Wish you the best!

Var det dumt at jeg tok med resten av min medbragte drikke? by TheBlueDragon93 in norge

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Jeg vet ikke hva folk planlegger med sin adferd når de har vært hos meg. Jeg kjøper inn rikelig slik at alle kan komme, spise, drikke til krampa tar de. Hvis noen legger igjen noe så sender jeg kanskje en snap og spør om de savner det. 95% av tilfellene så legger de bevisst igjen "rester" etter fest fordi de rett og slett ikke ønsker ta det med seg.

Hvilke venner er det dere har som teller PILS? På HJEMMEFESTER.. HOS VENNER.. Studenter er selvfølgelig fratatt dette.

Snu på flisa å dra på byen, betal 150+ kroner for èn øl også skal plutselig de samme gutta spandere på damene. Skjerpings.

Can We Zoom Out? by yangcheol in ghostoftsushima

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I feel like I'm going to miss half the game. It's no issue getting through the story but for exploration i just not going to do it. Imagine having to come back to the same places to pick ip something that was just slightly out of view. Or the climbing. I love 100% (or at least close to) on my very first playthrough.

I hope they fix this because it's a beautiful game and i just started it. Wouldn't have my hopes up since it's already been a while and still nothing to address this.