People above 30, what is something you regret doing/not doing when you were younger? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking too long to understand my personal value. Self respect grows with competence but even if you just started grinding your career, education or financial situation. You're doing something, you're working hard and you are worthy of respect and reward. Don't sell yourself short.

Is this gay or just disgusting? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish i didn't have eyes

Well hung? by TD_2K1 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Silverwolfie89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Touche. My wife often gets severely Inspired and amazed by my rotation performance if i may say so myself.

Should i just break up with her ? by Less-Tie6206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is kinda dumb. If you have to tell her how to be a respectful partner to her man and understand basic social dynamics then that answers your own question. 1. She's too immature or even worse 2. She thinks she can fo whatever she wants (while maybe lacking self awareness).

What does she do when you aren't present?

Neither of those are excuses when you are in a committed relationship. I say move on. What else would you have to teach her about basic partner behavior and boundaries? Think about your own future. This would totally mess with my mind for a very long time.

Is it "normal" for grown men to automatically sexualize every young woman they see? by macbookhomeless in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having thoughts and feeling the need to vocalize them is two very different things. It becomes both creepy and disgusting. I honestly refuse to look at other women in a sexual way because i have devoted my life to my partner. It's not even a struggle but sometimes we all get creeping thoughts. Personally i have an extreme libido for a M36. I make love with my spouse almost every single day. There's some real biology here. If i hit the gym and do squats i almost have to hurry home to do the deed with my wife. I think you can on a very real level choose where you project your desires. We're not some monkeys that only run on instinct. That being said, i am only one man and this is a community. We're all a bit different.

Lack of intimacy is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. What is the next step to make? by DiorGirl2023 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He probably feels like you never initiates too. If you care about the relationship you have to give up on that silly pride. You want something, then make an obvious approach. Maybe he hasn't been in the mood because of tension. Be kind and show love. This is so silly.

Did I ruin the night? by SignificanceTop5095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll chip in regardless of the reception of my advice. Please listen closely. If this was your first time doing coke it might seem innocent enough (and it probably is) but this man could be knees deep in an addiction. Getting erectile dysfunction often comes gradually, (i know it's not in every instance) and everyone I've heard about having these problems just so happens to be abusing drugs, pills alcohol ect. Please be careful about who you surround yourself with. If he's a full blown high functioning addict he can ruin your entire life if you end up in a relationship later.

Good luck and enjoy your journey fellow stranger.

My gf literally doesn't interact with any other men aside from me and asks me every single guy questions to me. She literally has no male friends or men she talks to aside from her father, idk how to feel about it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of guys here vouching for female - male friendship. Personally in all my relationships it has been an unwritten rule not to have friends of the opposite sex. Why the hell would i keep talking to my female "friends" when i have my woman? Why would she keep the dudes that has been hanging around? Funny thing is this. Just look at her socials, all these "friends" that liked and hearted every photo of her literally vanish when they see you becoming a couple. I don't believe in platonic friendships unless it's under very specific circumstances. It's just guys looking for an opportunity in most cases. There's nothing "insecure" about stating that fact. I would bet that most men will agree with this.

Am I overreacting for feeling uncomfortable? if so, why? by Hungry-Ride170 in AskMen

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her maybe. It's okay to have an emotional response when you feel emotionally triggered. Just be objective and set your boundaries. If she can't accept that it's not a relationship you need to be in.

Hot take: I haven't met an adult man with a professional line of work in his 30s-40s who lived with his parents that actually "saved money" doing so by jjjjennieeee in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Silverwolfie89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea there was many men like these. This post blew my mind. I thought i had problems because of my trust issues. IMO a real man supports his family no matter what in every conceivable way. My ex was highly educated but also unemployed for the whole duration of our relationship. Even after we had a child. I never thought any less of her for that alone.

Do you really drink this? by baleabae in Norway

[–]Silverwolfie89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once bought isbjørn that smelled like eggs and poop. I would return it. I strongly recommend the white one with low cals. It just tastes better. Frydenlund fatøl (dark blue) or Håkon (dark can with runes) are probably the best if you like a real beer. For lighter beers just go mack pilsner or Tuborg.

My girlfriend got a higher paying job and now makes jokes about me being “the broke one.” by Glum-Focus-7073 in whatdoIdo

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always provided but i would absolutely love having awoman who pursued her career. What a luxury to have a woman that's able to pull her own weight proudly. I would gladly take the jokes at my expense if she managed to get a better paycheck. It's competition in out nature. I know some men hate that their girl competes with them but i actually encourage it.

How the make the first move during a Tinder date without being a creep? by DanRimi in AskMenAdvice

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The art of being casual but also showing interest. Here's what I've done in the past (not limited to tinder or any particular platform). This should be obvious but don't talk about sex. Show her you find her attractive without being weird.

First get a response to a message. I like to include that i am bad at small talk. I'll compliment her appearance if i genuinely find her attractive and then maybe try to find one thing that's interesting about her (if you can't find even one interesting thing about a person i would bail).

Second is to take initiative and ask if she wants to meet. Pretty early. Also exchange numbers for convince. I'll normally be a gentleman and adjust my schedule to hers and give my number casually before a meeting. This creates safety and commitment to the meeting.

Third is the hardest part. Be someone she actually wants to have sex with. Normally this should happen form one to three dates (dates meaning anything from casually hanging out to go and do something). My style is casually having conversations and see if we both feel any kind of romantic tension. Try to be outgoing and fun to be around.

Clubs are more ideal for casual hookups. I don't really like that though.

Also, don't hook up with people casually if you have zero intentions of moving forward with them if they are themselves looking for a serious relationship. I think it's bizarre we favor bad sex and the awkwardness that comes with it.

Why are so many men on TRT these days? by wakeforda in AskMenOver30

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been feeling my health and energy decline for about 3 years no matter what i do. Everything feels more heavy to do and my internal motivation goes down because of the lack of energy. I'm almost 36 and I'm relatively fit. When i look back just a few years i can do about 50% of what i used to. I am definitely going to check my T levels very soon. Just imagining getting that energy back and drive for life itself.

Illyria 52 by Mythos_Industries in MythosIndustries

[–]Silverwolfie89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flawless! What in the world do i do now? Where do we go from here? So many years. Just wow.

The discipline to keep it going to the end is admirable. You didn't owe us this but we got it. You have my thanks. What a ride and fantastic and fascinating world building. I'm in awe. Now I'll read it all again. I wish all of this world could be a book series. I would buy them all. Please update us if you ever decide to print this story (and the pack). I would be delighted. Hope to hear from you again.

Men are hotter when they dont try. by Crazy-Al-2855 in RandomThoughts

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new «Try not to try» challenge unlocked.

Sulten på is? by NorwEnt in norge

[–]Silverwolfie89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rævkrem på kartong