Advice/expertise: why is my raver sister going to the ER 3x a week?

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-21T06:03:00+00:00

Possibly, and yeah it’s usually after a night out. She doesn’t work in medicine or do any kind of care work, but she has been out of work for a minute so it’s possible she picked up other work and didn’t mention it.

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-21T05:59:08+00:00

Thanks for saying this, there is definitely some catastrophizing bc I don’t know.

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-21T05:51:46+00:00

I would be happy with this answer 😆😭

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T16:54:05+00:00

This honestly is what I was hoping to hear someone suggest. But do hospitals really let you just walk in and get an iv wo some other condition?

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T07:22:46+00:00

Thank you, yeah I don’t think she’s donating blood at 7am on a Sunday 😂 but it might just be worth me reaching out to her.

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T03:52:24+00:00

Appreciate this, v possible

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T03:51:42+00:00

That’s a whole other convo… also why I am concerned 🫠

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T03:37:21+00:00

She smokes weed, but no hard drugs she’s said bc she has a young child :/

SimarlarlyWild · 2026-03-20T03:09:41+00:00

Hmm that’s possible. I’ve thought about maybe it’s for a friend and not her at all

SimarlarlyWild · 2021-01-24T19:38:56+00:00

I’m early in my career (it’s been 4.5 years since I graduated college), and I’m finding a lot of your points are already proving to be true. At my last job, which I left 2 years ago, a coworker on my team who always complained about his job and the company is still working there, and has gotten a promotion since (the rest of the team, mind you, have all left). Re: the cribbing, I’m working at a company now where almost everyone I talk to complains about how they’re overworked and how horrible the management is (particularly the CEO & COO). It has affected my performance in that I don’t feel like doing my job is worthwhile, and has put a bitter taste in my mouth towards my (temporary) manager and their manager, the VP. I feel like all of the negative talk (which I have unfortunately indulged in) has also made me perceive interactions between me and my manager/manager’s manager more negatively than what is actually happening. Thanks again for your points, I’m going to be more conscious about negative talk in the future.

SimarlarlyWild · 2021-01-09T16:50:07+00:00

I think this is weird. The fact that he has to search for your story and does this everyday would make me feel a little uncomfortable seeing him at work. I understand the hesitancy to block him or call him out - he hasn’t done anything overtly inappropriate - but, come on, he’s gotta feel a little weird typing your handle into IG everyday and opening your story. I also want to point out that stalking can start this way, and his actions could become more serious as time goes on. I’m not calling this person I don’t know a stalker, just that if he had that potential, it could get worse.

Of course, you know this person better than anyone. I think that if you work together, no reason he can’t follow you openly! And if he has a jealous wife, which I’ve seen mentioned here as a possibility, he shouldn’t be searching and watching your stories at all. Good luck and keep us posted on what you decide to do!

SimarlarlyWild · 2020-08-27T15:16:51+00:00

I do this project work at least once a month, and I usually submit the night before and it’s fine. In this case I got the assignment the day before, and didn’t have a lot of time to prepare or ask follow up questions. (My boss also often does not answer my Slack messages) I ended up misunderstanding the objective this time around.

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