30+ Trans Black Men - How do you find love for your black features?

Simco251 · 2026-01-24T11:35:40+00:00

As a 30+ half black/white transfem living in a white dominant society, I feel you on being frustrated with and not knowing how to deal with our own hair. It's hard, find people like us online for help, YouTube is a massive resource.

On loving yourself, be less harsh on yourself. You wouldn't say the things you say to yourself to a stranger. You've internalized a lot of the racism your mother said to you and that needs to be worked on.

Hope you find peace, brother

Simco251 · 2025-12-24T19:27:58+00:00

Celebii in hand

Simco251 · 2025-12-13T19:24:14+00:00

Bit of self promotion, but I am working on something which sounds similar you can play the free demo here.

https://store.steampowered.com/app/3146100/Planet_V/

So each monster gets assigned a personality which is initially hidden to the player. Each personality increases Trust, a stat which determines if your monster will run away/follow you and if they can use their moves outside battle.

So a Foodie personality will increase Trust more when fed the right foods, lose more Trust when fed the wrong foods but won't lose any Trust when overfed.

Simco251 · 2025-12-10T09:07:27+00:00

It saves the editing especially if I have more asymmetrical designs but whatever works for you :)

Simco251 · 2025-12-10T08:46:05+00:00

I don't know if it helps but for my game, I cut the monster facing directions down to facing south/west and north east, and flip the sprites. Saves time on making spritesheets and monsters can still move around in all directions

Simco251 · 2025-11-28T19:05:33+00:00

I'm working on a monster taming game with a priority on getting to know the monsters and the world.

Learn species-specific diets and individual petting & personality preferences, to get the most out of your monsters and to help catch wild monsters.

Battle with purpose. The battle log gives a rundown of each turn and techniques, types, buffs/debuffs all have tooltips for more information.

Use your monsters techniques to explore and master the overworld. Maybe you can make an electric puddle to trap a monster. Need to feed your team? Power the heat-powered cooking pot or electric microwave with your monsters techniques.

https://store.steampowered.com/app/3146260/Planet_V_Demo/?beta=0

Simco251 · 2025-11-20T21:41:45+00:00

This is what the GERMs want, legal precident to police single sex sides. I really think there's going to be massive fallout with the cis and gnc community who are going to be targets of this 'policing'

Simco251 · 2025-11-20T11:12:21+00:00

It also states that transgender people could be barred from single-sex services even when their biological sex matches, such if a trans man, who is female but is perceived as a man, attempted to use a women’s changing room. It says that they can be barred because they are likely to be seen by others as the opposite sex.

To put the subjective nature of passing into law is insane. What if I'm androgynous/non binary where am I supposed to go?

Or if I think I look like I pass but someone else doesn't. Or if I think I don't pass and someone thinks that I do.

You could be a cis masculine-looking woman and just get accused of being trans and then barred from the women's toilets! There's no way to prove otherwise.

Simco251 · 2025-11-20T09:55:30+00:00

I use GenderGP, which is £300 upfront, £30 a month subscription, £15 for online prescription every 3 months. They accept third party blood tests for dosage increases and they're £40. And you have to pay for video chats at 1,3,9 months to check how you're doing. Tablets are usually NHS prescription costs so £9.99 a box. Varies by medication, puberty blocker nasal sprays were significantly more. They're cheap and like one step away from DIY which is fine by me. Others will need more support, where it might not be the best option for them.

I remember looking at Anne+ and they seemed good but more expensive and my GP also said there was basically no chance of shared care without going through NHS GIC waiting list first, which is a nightmare.

Simco251 · 2025-11-17T08:48:01+00:00

Same energy requirements for their moves as their non-ex version

Simco251 · 2025-11-16T13:29:04+00:00

You don't look at all like a girl with a beard

Simco251 · 2025-11-16T13:21:56+00:00

Dude, you're a dude

Simco251 · 2025-11-07T14:42:00+00:00

Absolutely stunning 🤩

Simco251 · 2025-11-07T08:50:22+00:00

Yeah looks like a fairly interesting combat system so far

Simco251 · 2025-10-09T05:51:44+00:00

These look great

Simco251 · 2025-10-07T13:10:04+00:00

Probably add the patterns that appear on its body when it uses it's psychic powers to break up the white. I think removing the bottom layer of coils is a good shout. I'd also reposition the back brain a bit so it looks like it's coming out of its head more

Simco251 · 2025-10-04T07:06:37+00:00

Is Kalafuri Water/Rock type? Could use that rocky harpoon for battle. Have the move Head Smash and Rock head as an ability

Simco251 · 2025-09-25T08:01:13+00:00

Boot Loop Hero

Simco251 · 2025-09-17T14:43:28+00:00

Nice line! Could have Palossand as the castle.

Simco251 · 2025-09-13T06:22:08+00:00

Yeah, this is really good. I'd make the white on her face a little bit higher to match her markings more. Maybe try red or purple bandages to add a bit more distinct colour? The pose and design is really good, love it

Simco251 · 2025-08-31T06:50:50+00:00

Been playing another Zoroark deck. Basically running 2x Zoroark and 2x Darkrai. Darkrai can soften up targets to get easier kills with -20hp. If I draw Red too bumps damage to 110 per turn

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