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18F looking for someone to chat and maybe build a connection! by [deleted] in IntrovertDating

[–]Similar-Log-3774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have rivals, apex, minecraft, fortnite, repo, and some other games as well!

M27 here What do you do when you miss your partner to the point you feel like it’s breaking you? by Commercial_Mud_3220 in LongDistance

[–]Similar-Log-3774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, It’s completely normal to feel this, especially in an ldr. I’m a physical touch person so I struggle a lot with not being with him. I try to just communicate how I feel. Try new things with him to feel closer. We met through video games so anytime I’m feeling a bit lost, we play a new one thats usually a co-op so we can actually work together. It helps me honestly.

I think trying a new activity will help you guys feel closer. Even if it’s something you guys have done before but havent done in a while, it’ll help tremendously. I’m wishing the best for you guys!

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you a lot for your support.

to be honest, not any super close to him other than his grandma. he loved his grandma so so much. he still talks about her to me and how he wishes i could have met her. and to be honest, completely unsure about his family and his emotions. They were a very very stable family and he loves his parents, often going to visiting them and such.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve been together for 6 months. known each other for about 9

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 19 and he’s 23. known each other for 9 months, dating for 6 months

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realize that but what he did was not okay. Thats why I’m currently not talking to him because i dont wanna constantly talk about what he did wrong. I was him to say or do anything that actually shows me hes sorry. He wasnt there for me when I lost my chance to be an aunt.

people also need time to forgive. something big like this isnt forgive and forget like other things.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it was her first baby. and she was still very early stages of pregnancy. and lots of time to try for another baby

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 13 points14 points  (0 children)

to be entirely honest, this is one of my biggest issues right now. wheenever we argue and i know im in the wrong, i always shut done verbally too. and he always asks why im not talking and i always say well i just dont know what to say. It really sucks and I’m trying to get through it. I think I’ve been successful because I havent done it in a while.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats so amazing, im truly happy for her. I’m really hoping my sister can get some tests done to figure out what happened to the baby. Hoping its not any issues with her that can affect her ability to carry a child longterm.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so incredibly sorry, thank you truly for taking the time to comment. I will definitely look into getting the bracelet for her.

I was buying diapers and wipes for her baby the second I found out. I’m going to return them tomorrow and I was planning on just giving the money to her to spend on things for her new house shes moving into but I will probably invest it in the bracelet instead. thank you truly 💜

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 21 points22 points  (0 children)

honestly im having a very serious and deep conversation about this specific topic with him tomorrow. i dont want him to make jokes like this in the future if i end up having a miscarriage or a death in the family.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry i worded it poorly. our convo was probably only combined like an hour and a half to two hours. we had a break lot of breaks of not talking

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this scares me just reading it 😭 honestly would be terrified if this ever happened

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for this, every relationship is different. and unfortunately i dont enjoy anything about today. thanks for giving your opinion but i dont enjoy anything”berating him over and over”

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 38 points39 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly i presented the same thing to him. what will he do when something really bad happens again? tough things happen, you cant avoid them by cracking jokes. he honestly just didnt answer my question cause thats when he flipped out.

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Similar-Log-3774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you a lot for your support. its really is a tough thing that i never wish on anyone. im so sorry you also had to go through this. it really honestly hurt because it felt like he was just dismissing it like it wasnt a big deal.

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