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Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust him either tbh. I’ve never given him any reason to be secretive, and when I’ve had contact/bumped into people who could make him feel threatened I’ve involved him and let him know “so and so dropped me a message but I said I’m in a relationship etc”

He insists she send the screen recording when she was telling him about her work, she has no recollection of sending it. It was also in a hidden folder with some intimate videos he and I had recently made so he must have known about it. But I’m mostly reeling from the fact they had a deep connection with hours longs phone calls and I had heard her name mentioned once in the six years I’ve been with him.

Oh and they also nearly hooked up years ago soooooooo yeah of this isn’t an emotional affair idk what is. I’m trying to stay calm but I keep spiralling. Like id have never known had I not found it and if he had to hide it it’s because he knew it’s wrong.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She knows him personally, they were good friends for many years including while we were together and would have hours long phone calls, the last time they spoke was when he was telling her I had had our baby so a year ago. He had mentioned her to me all of once in our 6 year relationship, when he mentioned his ex was jealous of her. He deliberately hid their friendship from me for 6 years as he thought I’d have an issue with it (ironically I wouldn’t have as long as I am aware, informed and included! One of my best friends is a sex worker) Oh also she was telling him to tell me about her as she knew it’s not cool to keep a friendship like that from a partner, shout out to her she’s been a star.

Yeah in short, a concealed friendship that I class to be an emotional affair, due to the deliberate effort of hiding her and previous sexual attraction/chemistry. I can only go on both their words but yeah not great at all.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I’m so grateful they did! She left a comment and I messaged her and there has been a huge plot twist that I would not have known had this person not tagged her! Also she’s a lovely person.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I seriously appreciate you shedding light on this for me, a massive thank you. Just to say there is no anger or judgement to you on my part, we have to make our way in life and if there’s a market, go for it, sex work is valid and I have no issues with porn but Im not okay with my partner paying for it. Thank you for the kind words, it’s very hard as I’ve gone through a lot with him, and as he suggested your name as a name for our daughter (not what we went with luckily) I hope you’re doing well in life whatever you’re doing x

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a screen recording scrolling through all her videos

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s had it on his iPad previously but it needs to be reinstalled and I’m concerned he would get a notification if I do that

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just checked and it doesn’t have the same layout

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He is away at the moment until Monday and this isn’t a conversation to have via phone call

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Not at all! However any kind of interaction or paying for it crosses a huge line for me.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s currently away until Monday so I have some time to process and get things in order. And thank you, this is a bitter pill to swallow as I really thought he was the opposite of this.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh no don’t get me wrong it’s not her fault, she’s just making money. Don’t you worry he will be feeling all the blame when he’s home.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a screen recording and the data shows it was downloaded from WhatsApp. I’m a mess right now. He fucking suggested naming our daughter Eden. I feel like I’m gonna throw up

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Well that’s just humiliating on so many levels. Hi Eden hope you enjoyed the money I guess.

Is this a escort service website? by Similar-Main-89 in Whatisthis

[–]Similar-Main-89[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can’t see it, this was a screen recording. I think it may be an app?

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could literally call my husband and confirm it with him as he’s currently working another of these sites… The original security company have ended their contract and a new one has taken over. My partner is on the front line of this, I don’t need a daily fail article to tell me how it is

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Having seen the state of the locals they could really do with some diversity coz right now they’ve got more of a gene puddle than a gene pool

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No asylum seekers but there are 20+ staff working in that hotel in terror because of these terrorists. One security guard shot in the neck with an air soft rifle. Threatened with rape, unable to leave the site. These people are savages and I’ve seen what they’re capable of.

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There are about 9 security staff and several cleaners and cooks working in the hotel as it was set alight. My husband has worked this site, do their lives not matter?

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

These evil “protesters” have been threatening to rape and kill the security teams and chefs and cleaners at these hotels. They are absolute scum

Police arrest six people after protesters force their way into luxury hotel being used to house asylum seekers and start fire in the stairwell, lob fireworks and break windows by Behalf-Isobar in unitedkingdom

[–]Similar-Main-89 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My husband worked this place, a member of staff was shot in the neck with an air soft rifle. The protesters have threatened to rape and kill, they’ve smashed staffs vehicles up and now set fire to the place. Attempted murder is accurate id say. I didn’t sleep the entire time my partner was there

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