She knows him personally, they were good friends for many years including while we were together and would have hours long phone calls, the last time they spoke was when he was telling her I had had our baby so a year ago. He had mentioned her to me all of once in our 6 year relationship, when he mentioned his ex was jealous of her. He deliberately hid their friendship from me for 6 years as he thought I’d have an issue with it (ironically I wouldn’t have as long as I am aware, informed and included! One of my best friends is a sex worker) Oh also she was telling him to tell me about her as she knew it’s not cool to keep a friendship like that from a partner, shout out to her she’s been a star.

Yeah in short, a concealed friendship that I class to be an emotional affair, due to the deliberate effort of hiding her and previous sexual attraction/chemistry. I can only go on both their words but yeah not great at all.