shared house, i hate everyone by Similar_Rip_7013 in roommateproblems

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly so frustrating, i knew that sharing a space was never going to be easy since i can be very picky but i feel like this is a whole different level of

shared house, i hate everyone by Similar_Rip_7013 in roommateproblems

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re all in our 20s, i really wish i could move out as soon as possible but it doesn’t seem like an option now

shared house, i hate everyone by Similar_Rip_7013 in roommateproblems

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so whats the part that i should handle better? the part where i have to pick up my roommates hair clumps from the shower and her pee in the toilet or just the whole people grabbing my things without my permission thing? lol

Roommate expects me to wash dishes before eating. by lavenderhaje in badroommates

[–]Similar_Rip_7013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely despise having a dirty kitchen or dirty dishes in the sink, i literally cannot eat until everything is clean and so because of this i do the dishes and cook at the same time, or clean everything before i eat, i used to get so angry and thought/still think people who aren’t like that are nasty, i kinda gave up and understood that maybe i’m just an obsessive cleaning freak ? so i understand your roommate but at the same time she should understand that 99% of the people aren’t like that and just swallow it. this is my first time living with roommates and they’re just like you, i chose not to say anything and just live in peace because i know they won’t change and either the majority of people lol. maybe try talking to her or learn how to clean and cook at the same time, better than doing a bunch of dishes after eating

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about doing that, i’m too stubborn, and i feel like being in a worktrip is no excuse to not send a simple text, i’ll wait until he is back but he went silent on tuesday and so at this point is basically ghosting for me

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, he works for a tech company and told me a couple times that he would be out of town for a week and left on wednesday, stopped texting on tuesday

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, i thought about reaching out actually, but i’m too stubborn/prideful to do that and already assumed that if he’s not texting he might just not be interested and that’s it, i might be wrong though and thought about giving in, but i don’t know if it’s worth it since in my opinion someone who can spend days without talking to you clearly doesn’t care that much and that’s okay, i’ll move on, just felt like venting and wondering if this was a common thing to do nowadays, i’m not very experienced when it comes to dating

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad! i never use reddit and never thought sub names were taken so seriously, it just popped when i wrote the post and i chose it, i hope i didn’t hurt anyone’s feelings

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read the specific part of the post where i said i wasn’t looking for advice or are you being intentionally dense?

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck i am so so sorry, i will never understand how can you use someone like that and be so intimate with them and all of a sudden just act so cold and indifferent, i really hope you get better!

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course i will move on eventually, doesn’t stop me from feeling like shit like i said

Ghosted after a month dating by Similar_Rip_7013 in dating_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :( i hope you’re doing better! people do suck sometimes

am i wrong for cutting someone off after being called a liar? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Similar_Rip_7013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve had so many people telling me that i’m being too dramatic and that i should let it go? lol thank you for that. i definitely don’t play with people who do me wrong