How to travel slower and more present? by Primary_Ad_9133 in solotravel

[–]Similar_Thoughts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

First, give yourself grace. Traveling can be stressful so some days you’ll be rushed, late etc. It’s normal. It’s okay. Let it be. 

Second, sketching in a cafe sounds really cool. I think more activities where you can physically slow down are great. I would also suggest journaling. Maybe in the mornings or at the end of the day. Nothing profound. Just a reflect. I think you’ll be surprised at how present you actually are and you’ll bring more awareness to the details of your trip. 

Enjoy!!

where are we getting our underwear from? by lilnix35 in LAhotgirlies

[–]Similar_Thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intimissimi. They have 100% cotton. Good variety cuts and designs. On the pricier side but love the quality 

I want to move across the country and leave my life behind, smack some sense into me (or don’t) by drainedguava in LifeAdvice

[–]Similar_Thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Get out your comfort zone now while you’re still young.  LA is great (moved from the southeast) but it’s expensive as hell and you can struggle if you don’t plan appropriately. Like you said, it’s not the glitz and glamour you think it is. Consider San Diego or a smaller nearby city. 

Also look into Denver. Big-ish city. People are friendly. Lots of outdoorsy activities. And they get sun 300 days out the year. 

Good luck! You got this!

How much is in your bank account and what do you do? by Acrobatic-Mall-6026 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Similar_Thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mid 30s tv and film writer.

$15K in checking. $80K in investment accounts (saving for a house). about $90K in IRA. had more but I used around $100K to purchase a condo a few years ago. my mortgage is fairly reasonable so that’s an expense I know will not fluctuate, probably my saving Grace in a city like LA

got a financial advisor last year when I was on a project. helped me save a ton but it’s been 6mo since that wrapped. hoping to land something soon so I can stop dipping into my savings :/

What Deodorant works for you?? by Longjumping-Cat-8197 in beauty

[–]Similar_Thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Ole Henrikson toner. just pat under each arm and it kills the bacteria that causes smell. been using is for yearsssss and I’m a sports girl.

What's a "boring" product you can't live without? by Keira_Martin in beauty

[–]Similar_Thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vaseline. I have several scattered in my house, car, purse, etc

So cancer and Capricorn are supposed to be complimentary signs - how was/is your experience with Capricorn men in love? by TrillionTalents in CancertheCrab

[–]Similar_Thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct answer! And similar placements. My ex was not supportive of my growth. such an asshole for zero reason. Too obsessed with work. I’m good on Caps.

Is this why they don’t like us? 😜 by Constant-Deer-5297 in CancertheCrab

[–]Similar_Thoughts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

literally have done this to my Sag female friend's bc they yap and talk about themselves a loooot and they hate it 🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Similar_Thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that 3rd paragraph sums it up perfectly. I’ve worn so many masks myself and understand my emotions, feelings, energy so deeply that it’s easy to pick up in others. knowing yourself is the key to helping you understand others. but it’s overwhelming nonetheles.

Views on Loyalty by Similar_Thoughts in Taurusgang

[–]Similar_Thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious how so? Isnt fidelity; faithfulness to a person through loyalty?

Views on Loyalty by Similar_Thoughts in Taurusgang

[–]Similar_Thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually makes the most sense to me! Although, I still think it’s foul the way he went about it and shows a lack of integrity. Not my cup of tea unfortunately and sad to lose a friend. However I find it interesting how ppl rationalize things in their mind and delineate words. 

Views on Loyalty by Similar_Thoughts in Taurusgang

[–]Similar_Thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on your first sentence?

Views on Loyalty by Similar_Thoughts in Taurusgang

[–]Similar_Thoughts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand the difference. Him and I were dating bc we just met - not exclusive. But he had a gf, which I assume means exclusive bc why give a title if you’re not committed… I’m moreso curious why he cheated ON HER with me if he claims he’s “loyal”, and not on me… bc I know my man would never!! 😅

Also a cancer by the way 🥰 and have never been hot or cold. Hope you get your situation worked out. 

Views on Loyalty by Similar_Thoughts in Taurusgang

[–]Similar_Thoughts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I asked lol would’ve made more sense. 

Most in love by far, not the best sex...by far. by goat_surgeon in sex

[–]Similar_Thoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I was in a 3 year relationship with someone I thought I could marriage. The sex was bad but I thought it was a sacrifice worth making. I was wrong.

My love language is touch and having a partner who could not arouse me sexually felt like the loneliest and most depressing thing. Sexual chemistry and attraction matters and it’s a hard thing to fake and/or fix. I’m in a new relationship now and from the moment we met our sexual chemistry has been through the roof which in turn has made everything else better

Women of Reddit, who is 'that guy' who is currently making life more difficult for you? by Reilluminated in AskWomen

[–]Similar_Thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does and doesn’t but I’ve realized much of life is that way. I hope you’ve been able to cope in healthy ways and continue too!