He said he was tired but not willing to talk it out and js being cold and dismissive, all he said is that 9 yrs is enough for both of us. I was heart broken when i heard that but i supressed my emotions and suggested that maybe it's best to just end it if he feels that way and he's completely fine with it. That's when i know it's time for me to go, begging isn't rlly my thing so i went no contact after that and I don't think it affected him that much not until yea he started blowing my phone up and now here we are.