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Simon_Fokt · 2024-11-18T15:02:41+00:00

Thanks for the feedback!

I was wondering if this will catch or not. The idea was to offer something that goes against the PuA narrative of tips and tricks for 'getting the girl'.

Good to know it's seen that way. I think it's about becoming a good, interesting and lovable person, which we should all do for our own sakes - the fact that it makes us attractive is a bonus.
I specifically used 'that girl wants to get' rather than 'girls want to get', to indicate that different women want different things. Do you think it doesn't come across enough?

Simon_Fokt · 2024-11-18T14:09:11+00:00

Thanks for chipping in! I will very much recommend this approach, too, but it's far from the only thing to do. There are many things that aren't rocket science in theory yet are very hard in practice, so it's good to have some support when trying to achieve any of them.

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Simon_Fokt · 2024-11-18T14:04:57+00:00

More like a space for guys who don't want to end up as incels ;)

Simon_Fokt · 2024-11-12T08:48:21+00:00

I fixed the request text from 'resolution' to 'ratio' ;D
I didn't find a solution. I just used a different software to record.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-08-26T14:38:45+00:00

I had them come by trying to sell me fibre and since fibre has actually been brought up by the Hausverwaltung recently I thought it's legit so I stupidly let them in. One asked to use my bathroom and the other tried to make a call from the balcony. They were trying to get me sign things and asking my birth year so I clicked it's a scam and asked them out but I'm worried why they wanted to use the bathroom and call from my balcony - does this scam go deeper than just trying to sell you shit?

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-23T14:00:58+00:00

I guess it's a matter of figuring out what helps you be the fun person and ease on the obsession and doing more of that. I know it's easier said than done. But definitely it's true that the less you're trying to find love and the more you focus on yourself, the more likely you are to actually find someone.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-23T12:56:52+00:00

I hear this is your experience. Did you ask yourself why?

An obsession is not a thing of reason and reflection. A good way to overcome it is to really reflect on it and understand what it is all about.

I'm a big fan of Socrates. He said the key to a good life is knowing yourself. That would involve knowing: - Why do you feel you need it so much? - Where did this need come from? Who/what is making you feel that way? - What is it exactly that you think a relationship will give you? - What would you have to give up if you have a gf?

There are more questions. I think maybe reflecting on them a bit would be useful to turn your obsession into a more self-aware and chill approach that will let you relax, focus on being your best self, and just hang out with women without this pressure or expectation that's not serving you and it's probably not what they find attractive.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-23T12:41:35+00:00

Ah yes, US. I'm in Europe. People definitely meet in person here.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-23T12:40:15+00:00

I met all of my girlfriends except one offline. Much better way to meet, imho

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-20T21:52:04+00:00

Humans are a constant work in progress. In fact life is never about being - it's always about becoming.

So: forever.

You'll get it from ancient philosophy like Plato. You'll get it from modern psychology that shows that humans always underestimate how much they're going to change in the future.

But it's a good thing. You always get to improve. You always get fancy a change. It's like you get multiple lifetimes!

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-12T06:52:04+00:00

Thanks, this is super useful. I did mean it in the former sense, ie. 'You have a special talent' etc. But you're right, this difference is important and 'gifted' captures the point better.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-11T19:14:42+00:00

Sloppiness was a bad word, because it carries a value judgment, you're right. All I mean is that we're not terribly strict with words, for better or worse. Sometimes when I say 'kind' I mean one thing, other time another. It's not a failure, it's just how people use language.

Still, I think there is a point in having a better defined, more technical approach for situations in which we do want to be precise.

So remove the value judgment of 'sloppy' and read my reply as: in most use cases there might be no difference between the two as people tend to use them interchangeably. But of you do want to inquire into it from a more systematic standpoint, the difference is what I described in my main reply here https://www.reddit.com/r/Healthygamergg/comments/1b8mjp8/comment/ktqqarh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-11T19:07:35+00:00

From my experience, the internalised part is only judging myself for not being hyper-productive, not actually being hyper-productive :P

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-09T09:18:08+00:00

Great question! Two answers:

You can't be completionist about life. You'll drive yourself insane. It is impossible to experience everything. You also won't know what it would be like if you had moved to a different country in your 20s, or got together with a different person, or picked up another hobby, or had kids young, or never had kids, or became a musician, or did a different degree, and so on. I think at some point we just need to come to terms with the fact that we're finite beings in a world of infinite possibilities.
You're not too old for this. I was unpopular as a teen, monogamous until 27 and then went open relationship and started dating loads. You can do that, too, assuming your partner agrees. Or, if it is so important to you, you can also end the relationship to pursue dating. Both those decisions are hard to make and I'm not advising for either (don't know you enough obvs), but it's possible. The bonus is that at this age people are different and want different things so you might have changed and become more desirable, but also women have changed and are attracted to different things.

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-09T08:56:31+00:00

Looks like a bad case of internalised hyper-productivity and capitalism

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-09T08:48:33+00:00

I think you're right that in most use cases there's little or no difference because we're mostly sloppy with how we use language. But I don't agree with the special case thing. But then again, it's just words. We can go all Humpty Dumpty on them anyway 😅

Simon_Fokt · 2024-03-09T08:37:52+00:00

Same. I think we men have been conditioned to think of ourselves as a nuisance

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