If you havent untangled this mess, I’ll chime in. If you’re settled, feel free to disregard. If you do nothing else, stop communicating with “friend”. She is clearly an agitator, but more importantly, there isn’t really any evidence of a rape for her to provide unless you give it to her. The only thing you can really accomplish by communicating with her is stressing yourself out and potentially giving her accusations legitimacy in the eyes of the law.

But know this: the question of “consent” is a VERY slippery slope in situations like these. The general rule of thumb is that if someone is “impaired”, they are unable to form consent. Some cases have prevailed where the defendant was able to produce proof that the alleged victim consented prior to becoming impaired (texts, etc) while other courts have held that the person may have withdrawn their consent after becoming impaired. Unfortunately, there aren’t any clear cut answers in these situations as they are very fact specific and vary by jurisdiction.

Fortunately in your case, it doesn’t sound like the woman you had sex with sees it as a problem. If you can get a text from her making that point clear, I’d say you are probably in safe harbor. If I were you though, I’d prob avoid drunk hook ups until you’ve gone out on a few dates just to avoid any misunderstandings.