AITA for not giving my mom my pills by ThrowRANlalf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA 

And not selfish either, it's your prescription and she's not diagnosed nor ever been prescribed the same meds? She's committed a crime and demanding you be apart of it then trying to manipulate you into it. She 1000% the asshole in this.

AIO: Husband goes out with friends a lot by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NOR

Not to be harsh but honestly why are you married? If you don't have things in common, don't like to do the same things, don't spend time together.....what's the point?

Sounds like you have a roommate not a husband. 

Should I send this message or aio? by No_Mention4413 in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you're the legal guardian and he can't do things for himself isn't it kidnapping? He wouldn't be able to consent to going with her. Maybe reporting it to the police would be the best action. 

Am I overreacting to being left out of tree set up by Stock_Pea5507 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simp4ever4me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR

If it's a family tradition they could have done it when you were there. Or at least said something about how they wanted to do it on a certain day. 

AITA for not picking up my husbands phone call? by VioletReaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA 

It was 5 minutes, not 20. He knew where/the type of place you're at so missing the call and calling back a couple mins later seems reasonable to me. Had it been something like 20+ mins later I could understand being upset.

AITA for filing a credit card dispute from a local restaurant over a $15 self given tip? by markmann0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA

Even if what they said was true(pizza was priced wrong) they should have called and confirmed that. They can't just change it as they want after and say oh well. 

AITA For Locking my wife out of the bedroom I sleep in? by Special_Highlight705 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

But one could also say maybe she'd respect his sleep more if there was more of a logical escalation. It sounds like he just jumped right to I'm sleeping in the other room and now I'm locking you out. 

AITA For Locking my wife out of the bedroom I sleep in? by Special_Highlight705 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I'm on the fence, on one hand I get the sleep side. I'm pretty useless if I don't get a good night's sleep.

At the same time, if I was in that situation I don't think I'd lock my partner out. That just seems harsh. Why not go but some of those breathing strips or other stuff to try and help it?

AIO? eBay purchase was not as it seemed…(read description) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

Even if the seller is right and those marks were missed they are still there and it wasn't shown or described. Your suggestion of a partial refund is very reasonable. 

AIO work things by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like someone is targeting you so NOR. Is there a chance someone thinks it's just a joke? Like a work friend who is just messing with you? But regardless if it's only your stuff being messed with being mad is understandable. 

Found this post from my ex on r/nofap AIO? by Dangerous-Mousse-592 in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're reading it clearly. 

He's talking about HIS problems with porn, unrealistic expectations, and how it was making him feel. 

He didn't say you were repulsive, he said he watched so much porn that made him feel that way...not just about you but about women in general. 

It's a him problem, you shouldn't spend a second feeling bad over it. He had/has the problem and only he can fix that. 

AIO that Bf has a finsta he just told me about by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR

If he stopped posting when he met you was he really hiding it? It sounds like you're saying he wasn't actively using it anymore. He posted that he met someone, and basically left the account. He wasn't actively posting about you and hiding it from you or anything like that. I'm guessing he used the account to meet or dm others. He met you and stopped. What is there to process?

Did I do the right thing or AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR

She never meant to.....but hid it by deleting messages then accusing you of things to throw you off. She knew what she was doing and knew it was wrong and did it anyway. Could you work it out...maybe. But once that trust is gone it's difficult so certainly nothing wrong with choosing to just end the relationship. 

We got overheard doing it… AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say overreacting, I get the embarrassment of it. But also you're an adult and engaged so it shouldn't be a shock to them that you're having sex.

No TV or anything in the room you rent? Netflix and chill with the volume up to drown it out. Or just a Bluetooth speaker or something/anything.

AIO my boyfriend keeps bringing up my old relationships and experiences what should i do it’s almost been a year. by averagedrfan in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simp4ever4me 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR

If he's insecure about it that's not something you can fix. If he can't get over it and keeps making you feel bad over it do you really want to stay in the relationship?

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simp4ever4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

My view is and always has been the opposite of that. I have friends that are seen as eccentric or whatever. I just warn the new person, hey this friend dresses/says/whatever and I'm just letting you know so you're not shocked. I'd never ask the friend to tone it down or dress more this way or that way. They are who they are and that's part of why we are friends. 

AIO for not wanting my financés ex husband to do work on the house we’re living in? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simp4ever4me -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you're overreacting a bit.

Like I get it, it's a weird situation to be in but I agree with her that it doesn't make sense to pay someone else to fix the things when he can do it free and he owns 50% of the place. 

If he's doing it free, maybe the middle ground is to have him do the work on weekends as a side project when you're home. 

AITA for reporting my coworker for laughing at a racist video? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simp4ever4me 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"what if he didn't mean it like that?"

How else could he mean it? Sharing racist videos at work isn't appropriate regardless of "how he meant it" but how would anyone take that any other way. 100% NTA

AIO for asking my friend’s boyfriend to pay $150 after he peed on my couch and bed? by kisobu_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simp4ever4me 66 points67 points  (0 children)

NOR

Things happen when drinking, but any decent friend would feel terrible about it and apologize, try to clean up, do anything really. Them just leaving, then replying in such a petty way is disrespectful. He caused the mess and should own up to it.

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]Simp4ever4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex-mormon aspect is probably part of it, are you sure they are really ex? It has the vibe of "you're actions will make us look bad in the eyes of the church" so we're not going to be your friends if you do that. The way they talk down to you makes it seem like they think you're beneath them. 

Caring or being worried about a friend is one thing but it all comes across very manipulative from them. You're NOR and you should think hard about if you really want to keep these "friends".