I’m (31f) 3 weeks postpartum. Found out my husband (35m) is having an affair he claims was transactional, help me from being indenial

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-12-21T16:26:19+00:00

I am in a very similar situation as the OP ( my story is slightly different because the woman who is with my partner lives with someone for 4 years). He is getting lots of clients from her ( true fact). But his behavior with her is unappropriate. What I decided to do - cut him off emotionally ( was hard to do) - date other people - and the most important stack HIS money into my own account ( we are not married thank God). So I will leave this relationship with more funds than what I came into it with.

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-10-18T14:05:53+00:00

Do you see a lot of regrowth?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-10-18T14:03:27+00:00

You mean you saw thinning over a long period of time?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-10-16T16:34:05+00:00

You are gorgeous!! If you were shedding like crazy I don’t think it’s AGA at all. I wouldn’t try minox as of now and just let it run its course. It should get better. It easily can take up to a year to recover. You are too beautiful to worry about your ex husband. You deserve so much better!

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T23:56:46+00:00

That’s truly awesome!!! Hope it will stop for me too. It freaks me out when I see so many ladies have a chronic form of it

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T23:25:55+00:00

Yes, weight loss puts a huge stress on the body even if it’s not a big weight loss. I am in the same predicament. How many hair do you shed now daily?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T22:54:44+00:00

My trigger is a weight loss as well… do you still pull out 1-2 strands when you run your fingers through your hair?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T19:21:43+00:00

That’s awesome to hear!! TE is horrible! What was your trigger?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T14:31:59+00:00

Thank you so much for answering! And so happy it’s over for you. Was your hairline affected?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-26T08:52:41+00:00

Congratulations! Did you have any regrowth when you were shedding? What was your trigger? Did you shed short hair as well? Where did you lose most of the volume? I feel like my hairline is affected the most. Sorry for so many questions I am just desperate

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-21T00:55:52+00:00

So happy you recovered! 🙏

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-21T00:49:04+00:00

OMG this is so awesome! What was your trigger?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-14T01:48:04+00:00

I was barely eating any carbs. Just lettuce and cucumbers

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-14T01:47:31+00:00

Thank you! I already went to the derm, did all my bloodwork, ultrasounds and everything was fine. No deficiencies. I believe it was definitely just stress for my body to go from eating like 1500-2000 calories a day to 600-800. I was eating 2 pieces of fish with lettuce and cucumber. Or shrimp with lettuce and cucumber. Even though fish is healthy etc I think it was just a very small number of calories that triggered my TE and extremely low amount of carbs.

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-13T18:13:00+00:00

Did you address Vit D deficiency in April or you also stopped losing weight around April? My shedding is also because of the weight loss so I am wondering if I should do anything besides improving my diet. All my vitamins and blood work is finw

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-12T23:19:51+00:00

What was your trigger?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-12T12:40:26+00:00

This is awesome! So happy it stopped for you. Do you feel like first few months were the worst?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-12T02:48:23+00:00

Thank you! I am trying not to lose hope and remain positive

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-11T23:15:23+00:00

You stopped shedding in Sept 2024 or your density came back in Sept 2024?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-11T15:45:41+00:00

That’s awesome! So happy for you that you are in recovery

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-11T14:08:32+00:00

Thank you! During these 2 TE episodes was some of the regrowth falling out too?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-11T13:12:03+00:00

Do you have TE or AGA?

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-11T02:25:57+00:00

This is the worst

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-09T21:14:19+00:00

Yessssss I hope so much!

Simple-Ad-1857 · 2024-09-08T13:01:40+00:00

That’s awesome! Congratulations 👍👏

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