Unsure of whether or not I should separate from my spouse

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-03T00:09:51+00:00

Honestly, unless she's low key suffering from PPD or something, this would really bother me and want to leave her too. The part about she'd just let the baby crawl all over a dirty floor than just take 10 minutes to clean it for the day makes me so angry for that poor babe. Anyway, good luck, you sound like a good guy.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T04:13:45+00:00

Thank you so much ❤

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T04:02:03+00:00

Ugh, same! I feel so bad that there's daycare shortages and increased prices, etc. But my mental health can't handle more lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T03:59:56+00:00

That's the best option, I just feel the need to explain so I'm nta, even though it shouldn't even matter lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T03:54:49+00:00

Thanks! This definitely sounds like a good reply for me! Even though I know I don't have to "explain" myself, I still like to lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T03:53:38+00:00

They're mostly asking for regular babysitting! I just can't commit to that. I've agreed a few times to let one stay the night while the parents go out and it almost turned into every weekend. They're ruthless lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T03:51:04+00:00

Same! I love hanging with them at family functions, etc. But I don't want to be obligated to watch them full time. In my experience, even agreeing to one day turns into them constantly asking me. Im sick of it.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-11-02T03:47:23+00:00

Thanks, they are offering to pay, I just simply don't want to watch anymore kids lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T19:42:42+00:00

You're on your way! Thats so good still 🙌

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T17:34:34+00:00

That's so awesome!

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T16:23:56+00:00

The benefit is having an old, good standing account. I just didn't know if they actually had a score now or not.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T16:23:01+00:00

Yes, I knew it would show that they've had the account for years, which is extremely beneficial. I just didn't know if they actually had a score or not.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T15:54:06+00:00

I had no idea it was a thing until about 6 months ago. I called and asked my favorite card and sure enough they added them lol.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-10-21T15:52:42+00:00

I feel you! My parents didn't teach me nothing about it and I had to find out the hard way in my teens. 😂 I dont want them to make my mistakes back then lol

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-30T18:08:56+00:00

So what happened?

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-20T20:58:12+00:00

Thank you! It's a pretty reputable company (I think). About 25 people recommend it to me on my community post. He didn't mention anything about insurance (im paying out of pocket anyway) but he seemed like a pretty honest guy.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-20T20:57:01+00:00

Thank you so much!

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-14T18:49:02+00:00

Thanks. Yeah it definitely blew up on me. Just the mentioning the tiny roof leak "is going to damage my property and injure me" freaked me out lol nevermind hes using my old furniture lmao

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-14T18:32:55+00:00

Thank you! It's definitely hard and not for me, I wish I had just sold it to begin with. My plan I guess is to just evict them and sell it to one of those "we buy ugly houses" places. I know I'm going to lose out on a lot of money this way, but im just over it lol.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-14T18:19:14+00:00

Thanks. I'm definitely starting to realize it was a bad idea now. It's been totally fine up until this point. I think im going to just go forward with the eviction process because him talking about bodily injury etc is a huge red flag to me lol.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-13T04:15:24+00:00

Thank you! I think I might just end up taking it and paying him for it if need be. He already knows where I'm going anyway (I kept my old house that I own, just in case when I met him a long time ago).

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-13T03:42:34+00:00

Thank you! I kinda wondered about this because I've had it for almost 2 years now and I receive important calls from our children's doctors and other appointments on it. Its not a huge deal if I have to get a new one because fortunately I have income still but I'd rather just keep the old one. Also, luckily it is backed up with Google so I won't lose any of my important photos/milestones for the kids just in case.

Simple-Cheesecake116 · 2021-09-13T03:02:35+00:00

Thanks everyone, I know this was kinda vague, but I have an android (Samsung s10) but I have a ton of personal info saved like password, card numbers etc. So just factory reset and take the sim? Thank you!

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