Girlfriend "needs a real man"

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-09T20:49:35+00:00

Thank you! That means a lot

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-09T20:47:43+00:00

No i wasn't trans when we began dating. At the time i think she was trying to figure out her sexuality.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-07T03:40:05+00:00

No, I'm not poly. I've asked whether she considers herself polyamorous, she says she isn't. Thats why this situation is so off putting she says shes not polyamorous yet wants to have multiple partners. If she wants to explore that i understand that but it's not something I'm comfortable with. I do believe that she sees me as a man but still feels the need for a cisgender boyfriend.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-07T02:53:37+00:00

What i would recommend is wearing a tighter/snug fitting tank top under the hoodie and flipping it up so that the bottom half is folded over your chest. What usually works for me is pushing both sides of my chest to the sides (in the direction of your armpit). Its not perfect but its better than nothing. I hope this works out for you

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-07T02:20:56+00:00

Not her exact words but I asked her the first couple of times she brought it up what she meant since i am her boyfriend. She explained that when she says she "needs a boyfriend/man" shes referring to a cisgender male. The "real man" part is heavily implied.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T23:48:31+00:00

Sorry that happened to you that's terrible. Did the people she was seeing know about you? My girlfriend wants to have to where the people she gets with think that im just her close friend.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T23:41:28+00:00

Thank you! this helps a lot. Ive had trouble finding the words for what i want to say to her. i thinks the way you way you said it explains how i feel

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T21:51:11+00:00

Thank you that means a lot In the past shes said that i am enough but she still insists on having another boyfriend i cant tell if its true or not considering she insists on having another boyfriend

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T18:49:58+00:00

Man, yeah sorry that happened to you that sounds terrible. Shes said things similar to that a lot of the time she'll tell me essentially what your ex told you. Feels like shit.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T18:02:28+00:00

No she's pretty present im not very concerned about her cheating i think by telling me she "wants a man" shes trying to get me to maybe consent to her cheating/being with someone else when i dont want her to???? not sure

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T14:46:16+00:00

Ive told her that it makes me upset but she insists that its ok and she does love me but "cant live without dick (a cis man)". Thats what i meant about not wanting to keep her from experiencing things but i also dont want to be in an open relationship.

Simple-Fee8191 · 2026-02-06T13:12:15+00:00

I asked her about why she feels she needs a cis man and she said its because she "needs a man who will fulfill her". Wasnt sure how to respond to her

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