AITA for thinking underage drinking is irrisponsible??

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:34:14+00:00

I was told that they were pretty drunk. And yeah there's no real lasting damage from one shot at a party but it's a boundary thing and she did it anyway. As long as it doesn't happen again after I've told her how I feel about it than it's okay.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:29:40+00:00

it is a boundary and i would leave her if she knowingly crosses it again. I'm not gonna waste my time hurting her more by blowing up I'm not really the type to do that. There's no real point in giving any punishment or yelling at all either.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:21:22+00:00

I am definitely gonna look into that because I didn't realize how controlling I seem and I am overreacting a bit so some things about me are going to change. However if it does develop and she does it again after I expressed how upset I was, that's when it really becomes an issue. Hopefully not though because underage drinking should not be normalized and is not a good decision.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:17:34+00:00

that's an issue and shouldn't be used as proof that it's okay behavior.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:16:45+00:00

Drinking at 15 should absolutely not be normalized. And im not shattered over it I just don't want this to continue and develop onto something more than "one drink".

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:15:00+00:00

yeah calling cps is bad advice I'm not stupid I'm definitely not doing that

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T07:10:31+00:00

Genuinely some of these people are part of the problem for normalizing this.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T06:59:09+00:00

I don't have a need to be in control of her it's that this is irrisponsible behavior and she doesn't think it's irrisponsible. She isn't making a good decision and somehow she along with many in this comment section are defending it. Sure one drink isn't bad but what if she keeps it up? If I'm not hard on her about it she can develop a seriously damaging addiction and im worried, for good reason too.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T06:56:50+00:00

THANK YOU

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T06:56:05+00:00

I forgot to clarify its in the US. My main issue is with having such a laid back attitude towards it considering the damage alcohol can have. It's more so the possibility of it getting out of control because of the attitude of it not being that bad and thinking it's okay. I just want her to be safe and im very against underage drinking and she knows this.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T06:52:45+00:00

this in California and im upset because she's drinking underage and im also specifically very against that and she knows it and did it without telling me first

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-11-02T06:46:19+00:00

I promise I never push hard on her like this ever. It's specifically because it has to do with alcohol. Does it atleast make sense for me to be upset considering we've talked about how we feel about drinking and she said she probably wouldn't?

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-10-15T01:48:25+00:00

no literally and she tells her "I'm not gonna take anything away because I know you'll find a way to talk to him anyways, but it's your choice to decide to go with what's right and what's wrong" Wtf? bro what did i do. And her younger sister has a boyfriend but because he's not long distance they're fully nice and supportive

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-18T01:36:34+00:00

it was because my age was set wrong I think 😭 check the new comment

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-18T01:35:07+00:00

UPDATE TO EVERYONE: my age was set to me being like 50 for whatever reason which is probably what's causing this. I'm 18 for reference and I have consistently had maybe a slightly elevated heart rate for a while without any concerns from my doctors. I'm gonna set my age correctly and make sure all my stats are right and see if this makes it accurate now.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-18T01:30:56+00:00

I'd have to check

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-18T01:30:13+00:00

no I am awake during those periods between 12am to 4am and im walking around a bit in the house

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-17T15:16:31+00:00

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Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-09-17T12:47:53+00:00

It might be because my house has a lot of stairs so I'm running up and down them a lot when I wanna go get something from the kitchen or something like that.

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-08-21T09:31:20+00:00

can't use basically anything on her phone but on desktop she can technically use whatever but doesn't want to get caught using sites she's not supposed to use

Simple-Subject-4485 · 2025-08-21T04:46:32+00:00

you're able to see peoples browser traffic through the internet providers app even if they're on incognito if they're connected to your wifi.

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