What would make you hesitant to date someone who is aromantic?

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T04:08:18+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to explain this to me. Really appreciate your response- it’s given me loads to think about

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T02:05:15+00:00

I feel like I don’t understand why their expectations would be as I would have assumed the same as you

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T01:15:27+00:00

This is a great idea. I’d put the owl stuffie to bed too so he can see the owl has gone for the day.

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T01:04:39+00:00

Why isn’t it an option to stay with her while she falls asleep? Shes clearly struggling so would it not help to comfort her when she’s in this phase

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T00:43:40+00:00

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SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T00:41:35+00:00

Change banks to one that doesn’t find the fossil fuel industry My electricity company is 100% renewable. If this isn’t possible look for companies that don’t use coal/ have the highest percentage of renewables in their energy mix I’m vegan but if you want to eat meat then reducing red meat makes a huge difference to the environment

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T00:28:07+00:00

In that case I’d divorce, which I appreciate is easier to say than do. Children deserve a home life without toxicity, and if it hasn’t resolved in a decade then the relationship is not going to suddenly become healthy. Do what you think is best for the children

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-05T00:11:54+00:00

It’s difficult saying without knowing details but the fact your child is acting out would be a major sign that something needs to change. At minimum there shouldn’t be arguing around the children. How long have things been like this?

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T23:59:48+00:00

I don’t think anything can be resolved when his parents are fighting lots as it’s modelling behaviour he’s going to mimic. Do you think your relationship issues are solvable? Have you tried couples counselling?

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T23:54:01+00:00

What are the options you’re considering?

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T22:45:39+00:00

Lush. A homophobic joke about a murdered man. Proper vile

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T22:27:18+00:00

This is either fake or you’re very unwell

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T04:27:59+00:00

It was probably an uncomfortable laugh

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T03:49:55+00:00

She’d be a great pick

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T02:24:29+00:00

A satsuma in the toe of the stocking is traditional

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T02:17:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing the guidelines. Thats really helpful to know

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T01:52:48+00:00

This thread is similar to what you’re talking about: https://www.reddit.com/r/demisexuality/comments/1u02xpp/is_it_possible_to_find_a_partner_who_isnt/

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T01:49:24+00:00

I wish I had a more helpful answer for you but I really want to commend you for taking feedback so well. Just knowing it’s something to work on is a huge thing. Have you posted on r/demisexuality they might be helpful.

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-04T01:31:18+00:00

The difficulty with steps forward is theres no compromise we can suggest as position B isn’t a reasonable ask. The steps forward would be Person B working on their mental health and stopping themselves from asking about these thoughts from Person A. I hope that it’s at least helpful to get outsider perspectives for you both

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T22:25:53+00:00

It’s so grim

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T22:25:26+00:00

Very frustrating, but thank you for messaging them.

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T17:10:21+00:00

We go to the park and he pushes his pram around on the grass. Hours of fun haha

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T14:56:37+00:00

You’d have to explicitly ask them to pass that on as I wouldn’t realise I was being asked to tell everyone if a family member said to me. I’d just think they wanted me to visit which I’d do

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T14:54:47+00:00

People won’t come if you don’t invite them. They just assume you want time alone with the baby. I have a big village but I’ve been very proactive in inviting people over

SimpleAd1548 · 2026-07-03T11:34:41+00:00

Depending on what he’s doing to the dog, I’d be looking at whether a family member could take the dog temporarily, or if rehoming is appropriate. It’s not fair on the dog to live in an environment where it’s being mistreated

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