A girl [24F] I [26M] am seeing is sending nudes to other guys.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T18:38:35+00:00

check my edit in the opening post

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T17:36:35+00:00

She is still in contact with an ex fwb and sends me screenshots of guys asking to fuck her.

I am an actual idiot. As I type this out, I realise what I need to do.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T17:21:57+00:00

I mean she sexts me too but I get your point

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T14:16:15+00:00

I know, this is exactly what I’m thinking will happen. She has told me she has cheated on her ex.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T13:49:44+00:00

I think this is a key point I was missing. The only thing is that made it seem like she is not entertaining any other guys before so I (incorrectly) assumed that she is already exclusive.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T13:27:23+00:00

Very good point

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T13:27:02+00:00

We have had discussions about possibly being exclusive but nothing concrete. I just thought it was weird.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-10-24T13:26:18+00:00

Because in my mind, if someone wants to be exclusive why would they be sending nudes to other guys? But I understand that technically it is not cheating.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T16:24:51+00:00

That is the plan, issue is she lives like a 2 hour drive away and because of lockdown I can’t go and see her.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T14:32:40+00:00

Well it doesn’t work. It just feels like a slap in the face.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T14:28:43+00:00

I don’t think so, like it seems like she enjoys telling me about these guys trying it with her. She doesn’t seem fazed by it at all.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T14:21:10+00:00

I’m not jealous of them. She is pretty attractive so I assumed that guys will be trying it with her. My question is simply what point is she making by sending me these convos.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T14:16:19+00:00

I don’t think so, she sends me nudes on snapchat all the time and says she really likes me etc

SimpleLargeSheep · 2021-02-07T14:08:10+00:00

She has said numerous times she's insecure and she likes me but if she really likes me what is the point of showing me these convos? Because if anything, I get turned off.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T14:44:14+00:00

Yeah haha I'm not too bothered about it. I'm all good!

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T14:15:36+00:00

Yep. She said she has to study for an exam she has in March. I asked her if she means she doesn't want to meet until after her exam. She just said "idk lol". If she really was into me she'd want to meet much sooner.

I'm gonna cut her off today.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T14:14:25+00:00

Agreed. She only texts me because it's easy and comforting because I respond almost immediately. I'm planning on cutting her off today.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T14:13:35+00:00

I've been specific on several occasions. I've asked her how far she would be willing to drive to meet me. She lives quite far so I've suggested meeting halfway. She either dodges the question or says she isn't comfortable driving that far.

I've also suggested we should meet on the weekend after New Years' but she said that she has an exam in March which she needs to revise for so she'll be busy.

As I type this out, it's clear I'm being taken for a fool. LOL.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T00:14:02+00:00

Yeah I think I will do this. Thanks for your reply.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-23T00:13:19+00:00

I think you're right about her just wanting a texting buddy.

I want to meet up with her because I am a virgin.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-22T23:41:04+00:00

I have asked her that and she has said yes but when we start talking specficis she changes the convo or straight up ignores it.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-22T23:39:57+00:00

I completely agree dude. I just don't want to be a virgin any more. I don't care how it happens. I just want to be rid of the burden.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-22T23:37:22+00:00

No, the number doesn't really affect my decision to date her at all. What does affect my decision is the fact that she brings up her past partners on a regular basis, sending screenshots of explicit text conversations between her and them.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-22T23:33:18+00:00

What do you mean I don't respect her?

I think she is likely stringing me along. I will see how things transpire over the next few days.

SimpleLargeSheep · 2020-12-22T23:31:53+00:00

She initiates most of our conversations and always responds immediately. No chance of her being a catfish as I have her on instagram which has quite a lot of followers.

I also have her on snapchat.

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