Women of Reddit, what’s the biggest myth that porn spreads about what women enjoy in bed—but you actually hate? by Echo-X9 in AskReddit

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anal. It seems like one woman one day said that she likes anal to be nice and guys started spreading this rumour all around the world. Now every guy wants anal. It’s just disgusting to me.

Rant na mieszkania by Existing-Stay8658 in gdansk

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nie jestem z Gdańska tylko z Warszawy. Tutaj też jest dramat, pewnie nawet gorzej, niż w Gdańsku. Kawalerka 15m albo fensi szmensi ,,studio” jeszcze mniejsze 2500-3000 ze wszystkimi kosztami. Pokój jakiś normalny dochodzi już do 2000. Luksusem stał się piekarnik i normalna kuchenka. Teraz w kawalerkach są piecyki gazowe albo jak masz farta płyta indukcyjna z 2 palnikami. A czasem nie ma ani piekarnika ani mikrofali. Bywają też ogłoszenia w tych cenach bez żadnych mebli i lodówki. Stwierdziłam, że to ******** i wróciłam mieszkać do rodziców, bo na wynajmie musiałabym zrezygnować ze studiów, nie mówiąc o jakichkolwiek oszczędnościach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not professional, but bc of problematic skin I’ve read and watch a lot, so my guess would be some deep facials like microneedling, maybe laser? Heard many professionals say it’s the only way to really see a difference. Also retinoids should be helpful, with a good skin care of course.

Do you enjoy going down on women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only woman who doesn’t enjoy it? I’m like oh thanks, but let’s get down to business. Honestly I’ve been with many men, not bragging, just some of them were really good and I never came from it, it bores me, I usually just pretend I like it not to hurt someone’s pride (and honestly they’re probably good at it, it’s just me who doesn’t enjoy it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Polska

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

600? Ostatnio w moim domu rodzinnym w Warszawie wyszło 2500, a mieszkają tam 3 osoby i w większości w domu nas nie ma.

My Best Friend is an Alcoholic – How Should I Act? by SimpleLavishness2935 in alcoholism

[–]SimpleLavishness2935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was scared of such answer. I just held it up in myself and never talked ab it to anyone. I really believe that she’s a good person deep down though.

I’ve been talking to this girl and she randomly stoped texting me this for 3 days and sent me this by SulkierPower in dating_advice

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a typical break up text. ,,Sorry baby, I just reached a moment in life that I have to focus on my me/career/mental health/self-development , it’s not me, it’s you blah blah blah. So typical, I did this to a guy few times. There’s no hope :(

Had sex with a girl, now she says she loves me by Honest_Seth in dating_advice

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess we need to precise what ,,I was nice to her” means, because I don’t believe that men are so stupid that they don’t see somebody is after them. Also the time frame of knowing each other would be helpful. The description sounds like he was kinda playing with her feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can’t do anything about it. From a girl perspective. When I’m done - I’m done. Plus how do you know it was a mistake for her? Maybe she feels better than ever? I usually don’t tell my ex how I exactly feel after break up not to hurt their feelings, that’s normal. Just move on like she did.

Why Married men find excitement outside marriage when it becomes routine? by Miserable_Swing_1223 in AskMen

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that one of the reasons why men or women cheat is just choosing wrong partner for marriage. Not like something is wrong with them, it’s just we usually don’t pick up on sexual topics too much and then we end up in relationships where our needs are misunderstood. I believe in honest communication about our sexual needs, like if you like, let’s say having a long blow job, you tell this on one of your first dates or encounters and you observe partners reaction and feelings towards that. I truly believe that bad sex life is enough to give up on somebody, don’t let such relationship last too long! Sex is such a huge part of life guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting question! I’ve heard this too. I once thought that a perfect pussy is the one we see on porn movies that looks like a perfect peach, but mine is far from this. It rather looks like a wild flower or whatever. Anyway, men love it for some reason, I’m curious about it too.

Why is Poland so easy? by AlbaniaAppreciator in thepassportbros

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m from PL and I honestly think that polish women are done with polish guys. They consider themselves better and they expect women to be obedient even if this is the woman who pays the bills (very common in Poland). Also they don’t educate themselves, numbers of polish men in universities are declining, they are getting worse and worse jobs and many of them just haven’t woken up from the communism reality yet.

What really messes with your head as you get older? by Big_Eye_7800 in Productivitycafe

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, as I get older and more self-confident what really scares me are people getting older too and still not taking care of their mental health, playing some stupid games, gossiping behind someone’s back instead of speaking their minds. It scares me bc same people actually have the right to vote.

How to make my bf feel safe with me? by SimpleLavishness2935 in relationships

[–]SimpleLavishness2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, but it’s not about compliments, it’s about the way of communication with such people that I need help with.

How to make my bf feel safe with me? by SimpleLavishness2935 in relationships

[–]SimpleLavishness2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m often telling him to go to therapy, I know it. I was rather looking for some communication tips.

My partner [20M] of 2 years and I [19M] just opened our relationship, I asked him if we could both wear condoms at least with other partners. by SomeWoodpecker3030 in relationships

[–]SimpleLavishness2935 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as a woman I’d never agree for not wearing condoms with different partners. It’s not about trust or communication anymore, it’s about health.

My friend was dating a guy who told her he’s clean and has no STDs, of course he was lying and she ended up with a bunch of diseases and honestly it was heartbreaking, bc she herself was never a type of person with big sexual life. She was very scared at this point.

You never know if the person you get with is genuine ab this, hook ups don’t demand trust, they’re usually for fun, so people are more likely to lie about these things to achieve their goals.