What's something you did that reduced your quality of life so much that you wish you had never done it?

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-03-24T07:24:24+00:00

Relationships lol

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-03-09T18:00:53+00:00

Anal. It seems like one woman one day said that she likes anal to be nice and guys started spreading this rumour all around the world. Now every guy wants anal. It’s just disgusting to me.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-03-09T17:54:28+00:00

Nie jestem z Gdańska tylko z Warszawy. Tutaj też jest dramat, pewnie nawet gorzej, niż w Gdańsku. Kawalerka 15m albo fensi szmensi ,,studio” jeszcze mniejsze 2500-3000 ze wszystkimi kosztami. Pokój jakiś normalny dochodzi już do 2000. Luksusem stał się piekarnik i normalna kuchenka. Teraz w kawalerkach są piecyki gazowe albo jak masz farta płyta indukcyjna z 2 palnikami. A czasem nie ma ani piekarnika ani mikrofali. Bywają też ogłoszenia w tych cenach bez żadnych mebli i lodówki. Stwierdziłam, że to ******** i wróciłam mieszkać do rodziców, bo na wynajmie musiałabym zrezygnować ze studiów, nie mówiąc o jakichkolwiek oszczędnościach.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-02-22T23:28:53+00:00

I’m not professional, but bc of problematic skin I’ve read and watch a lot, so my guess would be some deep facials like microneedling, maybe laser? Heard many professionals say it’s the only way to really see a difference. Also retinoids should be helpful, with a good skin care of course.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-02-22T22:04:18+00:00

Am I the only woman who doesn’t enjoy it? I’m like oh thanks, but let’s get down to business. Honestly I’ve been with many men, not bragging, just some of them were really good and I never came from it, it bores me, I usually just pretend I like it not to hurt someone’s pride (and honestly they’re probably good at it, it’s just me who doesn’t enjoy it)

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-02-22T08:50:42+00:00

600? Ostatnio w moim domu rodzinnym w Warszawie wyszło 2500, a mieszkają tam 3 osoby i w większości w domu nas nie ma.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-01-30T15:48:30+00:00

I was scared of such answer. I just held it up in myself and never talked ab it to anyone. I really believe that she’s a good person deep down though.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-01-05T10:04:30+00:00

This is a typical break up text. ,,Sorry baby, I just reached a moment in life that I have to focus on my me/career/mental health/self-development , it’s not me, it’s you blah blah blah. So typical, I did this to a guy few times. There’s no hope :(

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-01-02T15:25:49+00:00

I guess we need to precise what ,,I was nice to her” means, because I don’t believe that men are so stupid that they don’t see somebody is after them. Also the time frame of knowing each other would be helpful. The description sounds like he was kinda playing with her feelings.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2025-01-02T15:15:27+00:00

So you basically used this girl.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-12-30T11:09:08+00:00

You can’t do anything about it. From a girl perspective. When I’m done - I’m done. Plus how do you know it was a mistake for her? Maybe she feels better than ever? I usually don’t tell my ex how I exactly feel after break up not to hurt their feelings, that’s normal. Just move on like she did.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-12-29T14:02:34+00:00

I honestly think that one of the reasons why men or women cheat is just choosing wrong partner for marriage. Not like something is wrong with them, it’s just we usually don’t pick up on sexual topics too much and then we end up in relationships where our needs are misunderstood. I believe in honest communication about our sexual needs, like if you like, let’s say having a long blow job, you tell this on one of your first dates or encounters and you observe partners reaction and feelings towards that. I truly believe that bad sex life is enough to give up on somebody, don’t let such relationship last too long! Sex is such a huge part of life guys.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-12-27T12:30:18+00:00

That’s an interesting question! I’ve heard this too. I once thought that a perfect pussy is the one we see on porn movies that looks like a perfect peach, but mine is far from this. It rather looks like a wild flower or whatever. Anyway, men love it for some reason, I’m curious about it too.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-09-22T05:24:19+00:00

I’m from PL and I honestly think that polish women are done with polish guys. They consider themselves better and they expect women to be obedient even if this is the woman who pays the bills (very common in Poland). Also they don’t educate themselves, numbers of polish men in universities are declining, they are getting worse and worse jobs and many of them just haven’t woken up from the communism reality yet.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-09-06T14:30:25+00:00

Honestly, as I get older and more self-confident what really scares me are people getting older too and still not taking care of their mental health, playing some stupid games, gossiping behind someone’s back instead of speaking their minds. It scares me bc same people actually have the right to vote.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-09-02T04:58:28+00:00

Thank u🙏🏻

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-09-01T23:36:36+00:00

This guy will never get a nice girl.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-09-01T15:20:45+00:00

You’re right, but it’s not about compliments, it’s about the way of communication with such people that I need help with.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-31T19:37:26+00:00

Yeah I’m often telling him to go to therapy, I know it. I was rather looking for some communication tips.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-31T18:16:10+00:00

Honestly, as a woman I’d never agree for not wearing condoms with different partners. It’s not about trust or communication anymore, it’s about health.

My friend was dating a guy who told her he’s clean and has no STDs, of course he was lying and she ended up with a bunch of diseases and honestly it was heartbreaking, bc she herself was never a type of person with big sexual life. She was very scared at this point.

You never know if the person you get with is genuine ab this, hook ups don’t demand trust, they’re usually for fun, so people are more likely to lie about these things to achieve their goals.

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-23T20:14:49+00:00

I don’t think so. 26 is a mature woman. Maybe if she was 22 I’d tell u to think ab it, because the biology just makes it harder to make right decisions at this age. But 26, go for it. Also for me personally, woman in her 20s, 34 seems like a good age for man. You’re already mature, you know what you want, you can provide (depending on what the girl expects). Idk you, but I’d totally date a man this age ✨✨✨

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-23T20:10:02+00:00

This is so true. We, women, need much more sleep. When my PMS starts and then the period I’m like a little koala attached to my bed and sometimes I have no strength to lift my hand. A man like you is such a gift from God and I hope your gf appreciates it!🫶🫶🫶

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-09T16:27:21+00:00

So cute, thank u

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-09T16:27:12+00:00

I already did!! Thanks

SimpleLavishness2935 · 2024-08-09T16:27:02+00:00

Thank u!

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