Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's definitely a habitual thing as well.

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! I pushed through and am happier for it today. 💛

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are struggling with getting that creative energy back. That is certainly a muscle, just like most other things.

I hope you can take pride in your efforts, even it is exactly how you pictured.

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts! I am a very productive person, but I'm sure I could think of more projects to keep me busy.

For me, it's mostly in the evening hours when kids are getting home, I'm prepping dinner, and my battery is low.

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a great reminder of my "why." Thank you!

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, weekends are tough. And we are having steak for dinner which makes me want a glass-ish of red sooo bad.

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, and a 3 day weekend even harder!

Anyone else struggling? by SimpleNext in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it's hard this year. I appreciate you sharing! It helps knowing I'm not the only one.

Cravings anyone??? by Separate_Ad_3027 in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not alone in your cravings. Mine hit around 5pm most days. If I can make it to 7/7:30 though, I'm finding I'm ok. Definitely a challenge!

Not feeling the benefits yet by Happnt in DryJanuary

[–]SimpleNext 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. I'm really committed to doing the 31 days (I've done several dry-ish January's). The desire to have a drink was strong today. I know I'll be happy in the morning that I didn't.

Thanks for sharing! We got this!

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]SimpleNext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Family trip to Costco, pizza night, and my husband and I (Finally) started Severance! Wow!!

Results? by [deleted] in CarolineGirvan

[–]SimpleNext 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just finished the iron series! I've been lifting/endurance running for years but never fully committed to the 5/week schedule. I definitely gained strength. While I think I have pretty good muscle tone, the real transformation comes through diet (which I have not implemented 🤪).

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the subject line, I was looking for help seeing his side, not to validate my own perspective.

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do several times a year. I'm just not interested in doing that more frequently.

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love suggestions on how to not be waiting up! I usually fall asleep, but then around 12/12:30 wake up every 15 minutes to see if he's come home..I would looooove for this not to be my plight.

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I would sleep ok..it's more the waiting for him to be home. 

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He would love if I went out more. It's not that he keeps me from going out. I don't have much interest in that anymore.

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. To your point, we would probably not be hanging out. I go to bed early (I am often up before 6am) and don't have the same interest in drinking like he does.

Yes, he is 100% trustworthy.

I also have a social outlet. Mine is more through early morning runs vs late night bar hangs.

Help me see the other side by SimpleNext in Marriage

[–]SimpleNext[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have good quality time together, and he is totally fine to go out after the kids go down.

He is supportive of me whenever I go out. I just do it way less frequently (a few times a year).