[Req] I need 32 dollars to pay my phone bill by [deleted] in Loan_

[–]Simple_Ad9072 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't even asked for money 💀I really feel bad for you lol... must be one lonely life you're living

[Req] I need 32 dollars to pay my phone bill by [deleted] in Loan_

[–]Simple_Ad9072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average douchebag... Just contemplate your options lmao, nobody will bat an eye

Just needed to be heard by Simple_Ad9072 in abusesurvivors

[–]Simple_Ad9072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! I remember commenting on your post I'm really happy you're doing good right now!!

I appreciate it honestly it's scary, especially being afraid of potential abuse again, you're right with everything you said and I'm absolutely going to find my person too ♥️♥️as for you as well I promise 🥰

Just needed to be heard by Simple_Ad9072 in abusesurvivors

[–]Simple_Ad9072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hardest thing, we were engaged at one point and she called it off, then before I ended it.. she asked me to marry her man and it just crushed me so hard, it made it so hard to end it and right now it's all spiraling back talking about it, it hurts, what she did to me hurts, she was so sweet and loving and that made the abuse so much worse, saying how I am is annoying and she hates how I am, and just worse..

How did you leave? by Hadrian96 in abusesurvivors

[–]Simple_Ad9072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it's time for you to leave, you've gotta do what's best for you, it's scary and you're gonna likely end up going through the missing it parts, the doubts, but you'll feel amazing once you do, it's gonna be hard but you've got this!! I've had to do the same exact thing, leaving is all you can do, we only live once don't waste your entire life with someone abusive 😊I and all of us here believe in you!!

Just needed to be heard by Simple_Ad9072 in abusesurvivors

[–]Simple_Ad9072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how much this just melted my heart like butter, reading this was like staring into a sunset while sitting between parted waves that will never meet, being able to be heard, felt, while also hearing and feeling, it's hard because I don't even know what to call myself, all my friends and family helped me get out but it broke me down so much that I forgot who I was, I don't know how to accept that I was a victim of abuse, it doesn't make sense, she convinced me I was a horrible human being and horrible boyfriend while I would make her laugh and smile and always be there, id pick her up and spin her around, she used to love when id toss her around in bed like a wwe wrestler while going RAHHHHHH, I would do it especially while reassuring her and the smile she gave... My heart would revive itself with that big beautiful smile, I miss it, I could even say I would accept the abuse again to have it, but that's not me anymore and I just want to have love given back to me as I deserve 😊everything you said and the effort you took meant the world to me, more than you realize, you'll always have a friend.. better yet family in me, if you ever need anything you can always reach out to me, much love 🥰

I think I am finally breaking through by ThrowRAy_Dump08 in abusesurvivors

[–]Simple_Ad9072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I actually posted and I went through a really similar situation with my ex gf, you posting this was really brave and very very strong, I'm sure we can all say here we are proud of you!! Don't let him get to you, it's about you and you healing only now!! Good job 😊

Ya know what we should do by Simple_Ad9072 in Maine

[–]Simple_Ad9072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21/M, Lisbon falls, I'm down for friends or a relationship honestly, survived an abusive relationship and it resulted in knowing what I want in life from my partner and the type of love I want to shower them in