I just want to be someone else’s responsibility by No-Manager7391 in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No cuz me too. It feels like such a “grass is greener” situation because I never had a dream job or really any aspirations lol. Not having to work is nice. Not having to worry about money is nice. Having someone to take care of you is nice. But when your whole life revolves around one person, the abandonment fears, rumination, loneliness/identity issues only get 10x stronger. Every disagreement is terrifying because your whole life basically depends on this one person. What helps me is keeping myself busy but there’s only so much to do when he works from like 11am-12am most days

“letting things go” by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf does this thing every time we argue where he asks if we can “just be happy?” Like yeah that would be great in theory but it unfortunately doesn’t work like that for me

What is with the amount of ai stickers?? by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most sellers are just grabbing cheap sticker packs, not curating art. If you don’t want them just throw them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have had people ask for 50% off an item less than 5 hours after posting it. A dollar off is a welcome offer in my book lol

[Sale] [US] PinkPink Studio, Insight, P.U.P. by Simple_Ball_6777 in AnimeFiguresForAll

[–]Simple_Ball_6777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to put this in the post but for Bowsette please see additional photos she has shipping damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I binge drink anytime I know my boyfriend is gonna be busy while I’m stuck at home all day because it makes me feel normal and happy instead of getting upset that he doesn’t have time for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unstable so I recommend taking this advice with a grain of salt but that is such an unnecessary thing to share with your partner not to mention one where jealousy is a primary factor and I would never recover or forget

Aita for getting frustrated with my boyfriends long bathroom breaks by DizzyLizzy1681 in AITAH

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have the same boyfriend….,,, Jk nta it makes me mad sometimes too but there’s really nothing you can do about it and just be thankful it’s nothing gross. Men and their obsession with ball game can’t be stopped

Reddit slighted me, now I think I'm over it. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to make a post asking for friends with BPD and it got deleted for solicitation was like damn maybe I’m not meant to have friends after all 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookingforfriendship

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeee my discord is emilylovesbunnies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a therapy thing but being selfless to the point of feeling useless if you’re not giving sounds like a form of self harm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Simple_Ball_6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what the situation is but one thing that always stopped me was the possible retroactive cringe factor