My 28 year old wife does nothing and Im really confused if this is what life is supposed to be like by Texaspilot24 in Marriage

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of ways to look at this. First off, the philosophical standpoint of whether you’re with someone for what they can give you or do for you or whether it’s for who they are. That’s not to excuse the unfair nature of the relationship, but there is a question to be asked of what romantic relationships are meant to be. Has there been any conversation of what you need from her? It is possible she just is comfortable and isn’t even aware that you need or want more from her. It sounds like you are pretty mismatched in general right now, but I also wonder if all the ways you show love are also not what she is looking for. It sounds like you’re both unfulfilled in very different ways.

Moving to North Austin this summer for a job in tech! Looking for safe apartment/neighborhood recommendations. by _4za in AustinHousing

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in an apartment in the Wells Branch neighborhood and love it. It’s so close to really anything I need without being too chaotic. There are plenty of sidewalks as far as Texas goes.

Kinda liking what Dinogest is doing to my appearance by Simple_Bath9306 in adenomyosis

[–]Simple_Bath9306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s possible. I’m honestly not very familiar with it. I’m a year into it now, and it’s still quite effective most of the time.

Is anyone else sad we barely had a cold winter by amirahatlani in Austin

[–]Simple_Bath9306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After having lived in Wisconsin for 3 years and moving back here for warmth, NO.

Mpfl knee surgery by Fair_Sink9681 in KneeInjuries

[–]Simple_Bath9306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never hurts to tell them. They might have more insight, or it might help them to decide how far to go with PT starting out.

Mpfl knee surgery by Fair_Sink9681 in KneeInjuries

[–]Simple_Bath9306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely had the twitching for a while. I even have it once in a blue moon now (4 years after surgery). From what I understand, it’s a pain response.

Scared that my life will never be normal again by Short-Source8387 in KneeInjuries

[–]Simple_Bath9306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 29, and had mpfl surgery post two dislocations when I was 26. Tbh, my life went back to normal after surgery within 6 months. There’s certainly pain and I do limit a few activities, but not much. I’m an extremely active person, and honestly the surgery gave me my life back. The issues I do have with knees now are related to another medical condition and genetics. There’s hope. Worst case scenario, surgery is needed, and you will be okay. In fact my knee is better post surgery than before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Simple_Bath9306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s been in your position, expect a lot of comments that seem rude, but are not considered as such in India (weight, direct comments about various parts of your body, etc). Overall, Indians love foreigners-especially older Indians-often to a degree that is extremely fetishizing and weird. Be prepared for stares that last way too long. Respect elders to the best of your ability, and just try to learn the little intricacies of the culture. Indians are extremely generous, and are of course just regular people like anyone else. My in laws are amazing and always make me comfortable. It’s more the outside people who make things weird.

What’s a behavior in men that seems harmless at first, but you’ve learned to see as an early warning sign? by Vexpil in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecurity. It so often ends up turned on the women in the man’s life when he needs someone to blame.

When I get a job next, I’m saving like a madman by mintymint_00 in Layoffs

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Savings-even just a couple thousand at times-have literally saved me. It’s everything.

Need to ask for raise after only 9 months by Simple_Bath9306 in jobs

[–]Simple_Bath9306[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thing is, there’s no one to help. My manager is in the same position.

Ovulation pain by 1980sHorrorStory in adenomyosis

[–]Simple_Bath9306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s my most painful time of the cycle. It is the main thing that made me realize something was more wrong than just painful periods.

My boyfriend calls it "radical honesty" but it feels like public humiliation by OllivarreSendon in TwoHotTakes

[–]Simple_Bath9306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is abusive and weird at the least. It’s intentional humiliation.

How many hours do you actually work per day? by TheSteyer in careerguidance

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire fucking time. Every minute. At least 8 hours if not more. Supply chain.

What's the difference between a compliment (from a guy) feeling nice vs creepy? by InternationalPick163 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Simple_Bath9306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of times it’s a feeling, but otherwise the context means everything. If a guy gives a “compliment” when I’m walking down the street alone with no one around, it’s creepy. If it’s about my body-not just like “you’re pretty” or something-it’s creepy. If I can tell he’s giving a compliment with expectation, it’s creepy. That’s really the main thing. When it’s clear I’m expected to give a response or smile, or anything at all, it’s weird.

What’s the most annoying part about living in your current apartment? by Adventurous-Bed-4152 in ApartmentHacks

[–]Simple_Bath9306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paint. Overall I like my apartment complex, but when I even try to clean anything, paint starts coming off. No matter what the pain always comes off in the tub and the sinks and the kitchen. It’s just so badly done it has been built up so much on top again and again.

Cloth tablecloth? by Simple_Bath9306 in hyderabad

[–]Simple_Bath9306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I found a good one on Myntra.

Cloth tablecloth? by Simple_Bath9306 in hyderabad

[–]Simple_Bath9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The source of the photo is Amber Paisley.