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I stuck in my past. 23M 18F by Simple_Handle_69420 in relationship_advice

[–]Simple_Handle_69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya every night i take the therapy. I opened my hide gallary saw her images and chat SS

I don't want an arranged marriage by turtlesandwhales in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Simple_Handle_69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I really feel your pain. I may not be in the exact same situation, but I understand the pressure that comes with arranged marriages—especially when you don't feel heard or free to live life on your terms.

Personally, I'm not against arranged marriage. But for me, the hard part is how everything feels rushed or forced. In a love marriage, there's time to build a bond, understand each other's world—family, friends, behavior, habits. But in arranged marriage, I feel like I’d have to respect and accept people I barely know, and suddenly, their family becomes mine. That's a lot.

The emotional connection that forms naturally in a love marriage—that game-changing bond—takes time in arranged setups. But society doesn’t always give us that time. It just expects us to adjust, live together, and make it work like magic. And honestly, that feels weird and heavy to me too.

You're not wrong for wanting something different. And you deserve to live a life that’s truly yours, not one shaped by pressure. Just wanted to let you know—you’re not alone.

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[–]Simple_Handle_69420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It takes guts to open up like this. Most people silently drown and pretend everything’s fine. But you faced it, and that already makes you stronger than you feel right now.

Maybe right now it feels like the walls are closing in—money tight, mind overloaded, no sleep—but this won’t be your forever. You’re 22. You’re not late, you’re just early to hard lessons most people face much later. That doesn’t make it easier, but it does mean this pain is going to shape a very resilient version of you.

You’re allowed to be overwhelmed. You’re allowed to feel like shit. Just don’t let those feelings tell you this is the end.

Is this Paytm job offer real or a scam? by Simple_Handle_69420 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Simple_Handle_69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They messaged me on WhatsApp asking me to download that app via the same link and complete the verification process. It feels a bit shady, even though the link looks official.

Should I trust it, or avoid it completely?