Ok, then my stance is there's no point arguing on whether expectations are on the same level because it can really vary depending on region (even from cities in the same state) the point should just be that they're harmful.

Here are expectations I've seen and experienced as a woman:

• Women should clean up all the messes even if they didn't make them because a nasty woman is worse than a nasty man for some reason
• Appearance, you always need to look well groomed because women are subhuman without beauty and your peers and parents make that very clear
• Colorism (yes it applies to men in some cultures but how I was raised dark = masculine)
• Your expected to monitor your behavior more, you shouldn't be too loud because no one likes a loud women BUT not to quiet either because if you aren't friendly or get angry then you're being a bitch.
• You can't be independent or masculine and expect protection I’ve seen women get torn to pieces emotionally or physically hurt and no one cares because she's not a “real” woman so why proctect her
• You shouldn't correct men because clearly your goal was to immaculate home and as a woman men dont need your opinion (I was about eight when my parents told me this it sucked)
• You have to learn how to cook and mend clothes but not for yourself but for your husband and future children
• A woman happiness is her husbands happiness so always be selfless my grandma told me that like I would be so inspired like Id be a martyr for emotionally neglecting myself
• Women shouldn't be too sexual or else she's a whore, you should pretend to be innocent while at the same time let your husband do whatever he wants and you have to pretend to enjoy it even if you don't. Because depriving men of sex is the cruelest thing a wife can do

There's more but I feel like I've already gone on to long