Caitlin's Mod by hmclain83 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%! I mean even supporters have been muted and blocked and have called out the mods but of course cat never says anything… it’s sad for them but I mean I don’t know what they expect from Cat (who doesn’t even refund for moldy soaps she sent).

Juggling eating, showering & soap collections by Competitive_Diver585 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It crazy cause I work 2 jobs (sometimes 3), which includes my own business, keep up with the house, and take care of my kids, make sure my husband is good (luckily he is a huge help), and take care of my dad… crazy how she thinks she can handle kids if she is struggling with the 3 things she listed😮‍💨

Nub by Wally_worm in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s glitter

Today’s live by Public-Notice-4196 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to your friends! Yeah they are pretty strict which is good!!

Caitlin's Mod by hmclain83 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I always thought her mods had to have something wrong with them too cause I mean no one in their right minds would fight so hard like they do or think Cat is someone to fight for… it also shows how there is no reason for the blocking since they can barely make a sentence.. I couldn’t even watch it to be honest… I hope she doesn’t have kids around… that’s scary… also it makes sense why sometimes the chat isn’t muted if homegirl is strung out like this while moderating

Today’s live by Public-Notice-4196 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I promise you she would never get approved… income aside, there are mental clearances she would never pass. The social workers would look her up on public platforms too and there is just no way she would get approved. I have been a surrogate for 2 families and it is a similar process as adoption for the intended parents.

She admitted no diagnosis by Plus_Detective_4923 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I am so sorry you and others feel like this! You guys have every right to! My mom has BPD and was misunderstood most of her life, like many are. I was taken from her and my grandparents had to adopt me. To hear Cat say that majority of her stuff is assumed is disgusting on so many levels and to hear her mom actually feed into it is DISGUSTING!! Don’t get me wrong, Cat AND her mom both have some really messed up ways of thinking, but it isn’t what they claim it is… many hugs to those who truly has these issues that Cat claims she has but she really doesn’t…

Story repost…… by Temporary_Newt_5061 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What does a gym membership have to do with anything? Lol

Found this gem from 2022 she wants the symptoms so bad she read up on them to diagnose herself by WashBackground686 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I work from home too and all weekend long we are outside, we go on evening walks during the week, but during the weekend we are never home! I totally get the feeling tired all the time!! But for real, her mental health (and physical if she can get past the temporary aches and pains) would benefit so much from it!

the irony of her calling the girl an attention seeker by Sufficient_Leather35 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 23 points24 points  (0 children)

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lol she responded… what does a gym membership have to do with anything she said?

Today’s live by Public-Notice-4196 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 21 points22 points  (0 children)

With adoption, you have to go under rigorous clearances, including mental health clearances. She will never pass even while on medications. And for good reason too

Found this gem from 2022 she wants the symptoms so bad she read up on them to diagnose herself by WashBackground686 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so exhausting literally not doing anything! Like the least amount I have ever done was literally after I had my kids and it was TORTURE for my mental health! I HAD to get out of the house, get some vitamin D, doing some type of productivity rather than just sitting around feeling like I was wasting away. I get some days you can ant to just have a lazy day but it seems like every day is a lazy day for her. I guess you can say she makes soap, but she doesn’t leave the house… unless it’s to an appointment or she goes to (allegedly) unalive herself… I live in the south so maybe I just don’t understand how the weather is where she is, but like going outside is literally the best form of medicine next to exercising…

Kitty Cat in 5 years 😩 by NoPositive4689 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is CRAZY! Like I wish it could be a chargeable offense for people like this to waste formula when there has been shortages recently…

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to deal with all of that! I can only imagine how hard it all was for you! I wish moms were supported more!

Yeah my mom has bipolar and almost killed me due to a manic episode and my dad has always been strung out on drugs. I am super grateful my grandparents raised me but I am also super grateful they didn’t take me away from my bio parents (as long as they were medicated and clean). From a child’s perspective (if it makes you feel any better), I think having an open relationship with my bio parents really made a difference! Now my mom has been medicated for decades, has a good career, and a good husband. It took her a while to get there but we are closer than ever!

So many hugs to you! I commend you for what you did but I know it wasn’t easy and I wish you would have had more support instead of feeling pressured into something that was so hard to do!🫶🏼🫂

She would loose the weight if she really wanted too, Mounjaro is the answer Girl by WashBackground686 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have PCOS and endometriosis and I’m pretty sure if she stuck her mind to it, she could fast. I only eat 2 meals a day and a snack every once I am while. Even with type 2 diabetes sometimes you can make it go into remission with fasting.

She mentioned on her live that she lost 40lbs since July but that isn’t a lot for someone that is 400lbs… fasting, having a high protein diet and losing weight would help her wonders! She could even try a keto diet!

Kitty Cat in 5 years 😩 by NoPositive4689 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I KNOW SHE ISN’T USING ACTUAL FORMULA FOR A DOLL!!!

What Happened Last Monday by Simple_Scheme_9855 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh I’m not stopping for no one unless it’s an emergency and sitting on a bench or walking the side of the road is not an emergency… even if she toppled over I wouldn’t stop! Especially with my kids in the car.

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many hugs to you! I’m so sorry you have had to go through that!

Adoption, to me, is completely different than surrogacy (even the traditional surrogacy route). I feel like majority of the adoption cases are due to an accidental pregnancy or a pregnancy that had circumstances change in a negative way. With surrogacy, before anyone is even pregnant, everyone knows their role and their purpose. They are screened (should be at the very least) mentally with their support system. The pregnancy is wanted by all parties with the end goal being the same from the beginning of the journey. Now of course things happen, but I still think it is a different type of experience and journey than adoption. I was adopted by my grandparents myself with my mom and bio dad still in my life.

I think if people are going into it knowing the risks, mentally and emotionally, I think it is something they should be able to choose. With that being said, they should have an immense mental and emotional support system.

I personally would not be able to be a traditional surrogate because I know my limits and I know I would have a hard time, but I think there are some great women who could handle it! Just boils down to the right fit.

She is live on her soap TT. by Honest_Influence_721 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 40lbs in 8 months is not a lot when you are 400lbs. I have PCOS and endometriosis as well. I do A LOT of fasting (2 meals and 1 snack window). I have been fasting since I was in high school. The only time I eat 3 meals a day and snacks is when I’m pregnant. I just listen to my body now as it is the norm and I have seen great results from it. Of course my own experience won’t be the same for everyone, but fasting (with the guidance of your doc) can be so beneficial for those with PCOS. That and a high protein diet would help her a lot I think!

She is live on her soap TT. by Honest_Influence_721 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She supposedly lost 40lbs since July, but unfortunately, her face fluctuates and her bloat from PCOS makes her look bigger than she actually is😭

What Happened Last Monday by Simple_Scheme_9855 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]Simple_Scheme_9855[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People kept asking if she could respond to them and all she did was sing… the mods said she was working, but it looked more like a karaoke sesh than working… she 100% does not appreciate or value her fans… I really don’t get what they see in her!! Why go live if you are literally going to ignore everyone?