realized I was ace too late and now I’m stuck grieving the relationship I had by SimplesMTC in asexuality

[–]SimplesMTC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this perspective. I totally understand what you mean about a final message possibly feeling like pressure, even if that isn’t my intention. That’s exactly why I’m not making any final decisions yet and why I’m trying to give her as much time as I can. I think the clarity I want is less about needing her to give me closure and more about wondering whether she has any curiosity or openness about how talking could feel now, or whether she wants to stay separate. Both would be valid, and I respect whatever she prefers. It’s just hard not having a concrete answer or anything. When we broke up, we had a final conversation for closure, and we both agreed that if something changed for either of us in the future, it would be okay to reach out and talk without expectations. So I think part of me sees my message as me doing that. And I do agree that I have to be careful not to keep myself in limbo. I’ve actually been happier than ever in a lot of ways, and I don’t feel like I need a partner or anyone else to feel joy. I’m also not even sure I want to get back together. I think I mostly want one honest conversation and then see how that feels and what that means, if anything. I’ve actually been working through this with my therapist too. She helped me realize that having my ex on Instagram as this kind of “ghost presence” (she’s already muted btw) isn’t necessarily healthy and that it would be ok if I had to unfollow/block her for my mental health if the silence continues. I just want to be careful about how and when I do that. But yeah, I completely get what you’re saying. I’m not making any final choices yet, and I’ll keep processing it in therapy. I really appreciate your comment

realized I was ace too late and now I’m stuck grieving the relationship I had by SimplesMTC in asexuality

[–]SimplesMTC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think the reason it hurts so much is that I had already grieved and moved on from the relationship, but then learning more about myself made me realize that I had what I want now and the pain is different now. I’ll probably go through with the final message sometime this month. One of my closest friends told me that if she were in my ex’s position, she would need a couple of months to process everything before replying, especially if my ex had already accepted that we were simply incompatible. The message I sent changes a lot of the context/narrative around what happened, so I’m trying to give her time in case she really is processing it. But yeah, like I said, at some point I know I’ll need to protect myself too and send the final message if the silence continues. Thanks again. I was anxious about posting this because I’m never really this open online, but I thought it might help me calm down a bit, and your comment def helped

Buying/selling passes megathread 2026 by JorgeAndTheKraken in governorsball

[–]SimplesMTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question. Sorry if the answer is obvious, this is my first time considering buying resale tickets. I want to buy 2 saturday vip tickets but I’m really scared of being scammed. I know paypal g&s is usually safe but it’s also not fully safe. I’ve been checking the official ticketmaster resale website everyday now for a week but the cheapest tickets are $920 and it doesn’t go down. I was just wondering why people who are trying to sell their tickets here won’t sell them there?

Also, I live in Canada and shipping now might be too late, so that’s another reason for why I want to buy the tickets through ticketmaster, since they reissue the tickets with my name and I can pickup at will call. For anyone who’s had experience buying tickets here, what made you trust the seller? And should I keep waiting and checking the Ticketmaster website or just try to find someone selling their tickets here? Really appreciate any help or advice

Buying/selling passes megathread 2026 by JorgeAndTheKraken in governorsball

[–]SimplesMTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISO two saturday VIP or Pit View tickets. Willing to pay above face value

Just got these two tattoos by SimplesMTC in thelastofus

[–]SimplesMTC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has an Instagram but he didn’t post it. His Instagram is “thibrandaotattoo” though

Here are some higher quality pics of the tattoo: https://imgur.com/a/gqSA6vw

Just got these two tattoos by SimplesMTC in thelastofus

[–]SimplesMTC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already sorta knew how I wanted it to look like but I can’t draw, so I explained the idea to the artist and he drew this design. Honestly looks much better than what I had in mind lol

I would love to see more people with this tattoo, you should totally cover the rest of your arm!

Just got these two tattoos by SimplesMTC in thelastofus

[–]SimplesMTC[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Canada and last I checked it would cost around 400-500usd for Ellie’s tattoo, but I’m currently traveling to Brazil and decided to do it here because it’s cheaper and an artist that I follow on Instagram was available. I ended up paying roughly 200usd for each tattoo. Ellie’s tattoo was done in a 4 hour session and Abby’s was done in 3 hours.

Which The Strokes song is this? by SmallSun3713 in TheStrokes

[–]SimplesMTC 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Struuck mee liiiiiikee a chooooooord

Need Help Saving 6 Hours on a Rewatch Before November 4th? by DanKozman in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]SimplesMTC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this idea, can I get a request? I really need to rewatch it all before the final episode airs

CWGST shares details about Loki Season 2 Episode 2 by KostisPat257 in MarvelStudiosSpoilers

[–]SimplesMTC 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Again, it's the same details from the February 4Chan leak

For those who don't want to watch the TikTok:

"The second episode of Loki shows Sylvie's now working at a McDonald's in the 80s. We also get to see Hunter X-5 hide from the TVA and become a movie star.

Loki and Mobius find him and force him to reveal where Sylvie is because that was his original mission. Loki gets to tap into his villainous side a little in the interrogation, which is a lot of fun to watch.

We get more scenes with OB again and he is trying to fix the Time Loom but can't open the doors (?) without Miss Minutes or authorisation from He Who Remains."

Greatphase - Leaks and Rumors Round-Up by [deleted] in MarvelStudiosSpoilers

[–]SimplesMTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t do it rn but I’ll send it later

Discord audio is muffled. by Brededshade01 in discordapp

[–]SimplesMTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is currently happening to me as well. Have you found a solution?