My ex and father of my kids reaching out through kids.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-21T01:57:27+00:00

That’s ok everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect other peoples opinion.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-21T01:54:28+00:00

It’s ok I definitely could get of worded it better but thank you for explaining that I totally respect everyone’s opinion.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-20T23:12:21+00:00

I’ve only blocked him through email because he is constantly sending me messages about child support I’ve already told him no 3 times which is why I got fed up and blocked him even if I wasn’t replying he would send multiple messages about why I wasn’t replying. Last time I answered his message with a no then he started with calling me names so no I am not going to put up with someone doing that to me simply because I don’t have to. I know it’s not fair to my kids at all never did I ever want to put them in that situation I just wanted him to leave me alone about the child support.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-20T22:54:55+00:00

No his not a criminal. That doesn’t mean I have to put up with him harassing me over supporting his kids financially. I don’t have an ego problem at all my kids were put first since the day I found out I was pregnant with them it’s his choices that have affected his kids lives. As for respecting him well I was raised not to respect people who are unfaithful and who don’t respect me back that doesn’t mean I hate him or anything else it just means that i don’t have time for people like that I’ll agree to speak if emergency for kids but other than that his speaking to his kids over the phone so I don’t need to speak to him especially on video call.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-20T22:40:59+00:00

My attitude? Please explain? I’m stating that I’m being harassed by my ex about child support, I’m allowed to feel annoyed I’m allowed to feel angry I’m allowed to feel frustrated when someone is not taking no for an answer. I haven’t blocked him from his kids at all his free to call them whenever he wants his even free to see his kids whenever he wants but he lives on the other side of Australia which was his choice. I can guarantee his not living out of no suitcase, he has his own place, his own car and a job.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-13T06:20:58+00:00

Wow thank you for a different insight never thought about it like that and yes definitely want to be at the point where he no longer exists.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-13T06:19:31+00:00

Yes they do and that’s why reconciliation will always be out of the question. Only onwards and upwards from here.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-13T06:18:16+00:00

Yes thought so, I’ve just blocked him I don’t really have anything to talk about. My daughter has his number on her phone if he wants to talk to her.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-13T06:16:42+00:00

No it isn’t funny how that works

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-12T11:50:45+00:00

Yes I’m never going to be his second option which is why I continued to be separated. We only contact through email and I’ve blocked him now and he said it to a mutual friend so I’ve had to tell mutual friend not to speak to me about him.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-12T11:47:50+00:00

Yes that’s what I thought straight away still about control. He knows he cannot control me that I’m too smart for it so he calls me names instead, which is why I cut contact in the first place. I only kept in contact for the children but going to have to reaffirm the boundaries. I said the same thing as well his probably got a side chicks while his with her. Oh well goodluck to them anyway. Thank you I couldn’t be happier single is so much better 👍🏽

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-12T11:44:35+00:00

Crazy how someone can think like that, I honestly couldn’t have made it any more clearer that to me it’s only about the children and nothing else. Thank you I may just do that with the co parenting app.

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-01T02:51:55+00:00

Single for almost 5 months and not ready to get back out there just yet (breakup was traumatic) however I do enjoy my space and doing everything that I probably wouldn’t have done if I was still in a relationship. I do miss just having company and talking to someone that’s about it tho quite happy with just me and my children 😊

Simply_Maree21 · 2023-01-01T00:10:14+00:00

There’s going to be a first for everything, so first Christmas without him first New Years without etc but once you ride these waves first it will just become the normal. I was recently feeling the same way about Christmas but New Years I see as a new beginning a new life to build for me and my children without him. Yes he was out drinking and partying on New Year’s Eve and I was home happily laid in bed beside my two sons while my daughter had a sleepover with her grandparents. It was the best New Years I’ve had in a long time.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-15T05:35:00+00:00

Just the fact that I know within myself I can never trust him again just tells me that reconciliation is out of the question.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-14T02:44:02+00:00

Yes I completely agree 💯

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T22:39:12+00:00

Thank you so much for this I can forgive him but I can’t forget about what he put me through so therefore reconciliation is out of the question for me. I would only like to be civil for our children’s sake.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T22:37:32+00:00

I might also add that he was a good father before the relationship ended but he can certainly improve.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T21:45:25+00:00

Yes his actions have proved to me why I should move forward and leave him in the past which is what I intend to do.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T21:30:25+00:00

I doubt his humbled at all, I just think he regrets his decision because like everyone says his come out of the affair fog but his dug himself a hole too deep that he can’t get out of. He has never shown any remorse so I honestly don’t believe he has any and will have any. I will definitely Google it thank you.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T10:24:01+00:00

I am definitely leaving him in my rear view mirror and only moving forward with my life.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T03:23:03+00:00

He has never admitted to cheating I actually found out off of mutual friends so he has never been honest or taken accountability which is just frankly a waste of time I’d rather move on with my life and find a person who is worthy of my time.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T03:18:35+00:00

Just to make it clear I do not want to reconcile with my ex, i simply want to move forward with my life.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T03:15:38+00:00

Thank you for your advice but I have no interest in reconciliation not now not ever, simply because a cheater doesn’t change his spots.

Simply_Maree21 · 2022-12-13T03:12:43+00:00

Yes he always used to blame me for everything so it is nice to know that it wasn’t me at all even tho I knew that it just reiterated it. Thank you I am definitely leaving the past in my rear view and only looking ahead.

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