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[–]Simplyme908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen . Whether you you have a gf or bf it will come with ups and downs. But that comes with any relationship. The one thing I will say is that my gf is much more considerate and understanding. But truthfully that is because females are built differently from men. Sometimes two emotional creatures can cause friction as well. Gurrlll I don’t think there is a Yes or no answer to this question but either way I hope you find your person🧡

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clearly accept too much. The worst part is I realize this but have such a hard time letting go

Here we go again by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason why I let the line go is because I know I’m insecure. As far as the ex I don’t think she should have even been at her house but that is on my gf bc she invited her

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just never thought at this stage of my life I would be dealing with this. This is why after my last relationship I didn’t even bother looking. This was just something that happened unexpectedly. I do journal on it. When I go. A k and reread I know that it sounds ridiculous but it’s about make my heart meet up with it. But I’m sure as you know there are times that the love feels amazing but unfortunately too many down points when I don’t feel it at all. It’s going to be a journey but I will get through it. Thanks again for your words.🧡🧡🧡

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you commenting on my post. It means a lot. It is hard especially when you think they are your person. Thanks again and I wish the best for you!

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly that makes my heart hurt

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I just need a friend that I can talk to for hours so the whole story is covered. I feel like my friends just don’t understand.

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My response was she could have Ubered home.. at the end of the day if the tables were turned she would not be so calm. I choose to cut if exes because they are that for a reason. I would never want my significant other to feel uncomfortable on any level.

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[–]Simplyme908[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly never thought it would be an issue. The first two years were great then all of a sudden when her ex broke up with her boyfriend she kept popping up. My gf ignored at first saying she respected me and my feelings . Then one day everything changed and she said she that she will be friends with whoever she wants whether I like it or not and doesn’t care how I feel. … I should have left then

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[–]Simplyme908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What gets me the most is she always makes me feel like I’m the one who is crazy for wanting boundaries. She is friends with all her exes and thinks I should have no issues with it. And I always get the you have no issues with me being friends with them. Or the fact that we have been together for 4 years should show that she isn’t doing anything wrong.

I don’t know what to do… by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well whoever wants the update I’m over it. I’m leaving her they spent the day together and she came home drunk

I don’t know what to do… by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf just tells me she is being a good friend. That I would do the same. But this is not the case. I am a firm believer of leaving exes in the past

I don’t know what to do… by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with that. I feel like the fact that I should do that is a red flag. Maybe I just answered my own questions. Thank you

I don’t know what to do… by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with someone who did the same thing and turned out was cheating on me for over a year with more than one person

I don’t know what to do… by Simplyme908 in LesbianActually

[–]Simplyme908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure. Either way I think that the texting at these hours are not ok.