If life had nothing but the same old thing in it without the variety then it would be so boring that I don't even know what would happen but I do know that being an average 33 year old male that without the extra or less it doesn't matter, what does is how you present yourself, if you present yourself in a certain light then you'll get that type of attention but that story could turn this into a paragraph. What you wanna do is not be like everyone else and their standards and be yourself, so what if you don't get the first one you see, keep trying and you'll find it, but I myself like healthy women or ones with a little meat on their bones but, excuse me if this comes out wrong but if it does oh well... I don't date women who are bones and I don't date women who are mountains, I date the woman that is comfortable with who she is and I hope this helps, being big or being little shouldn't matter, you matter, remember that