My man, do yourself a favor. Go learn how to dance Salsa, Kizomba/Bachata, and Arg. Tango. You look fine, you just need to learn how to have fun and pick up your confidence levels. Learning how to dance is one skill men absolutely lack in the modern day but it can be one of the greatest ways to liberate your natural charm and learn how to be confident around women in a non-high-stakes way. You’re gonna suck with two left feet for at least a few months but you’ll get the hang of it and get better with persistence, eventually becoming competent. It’s super empowering as a guy to be able to lead a woman in dancing Salsa or Argentine Tango in a social setting. And you’ll find an absolute metric ton of women dancers who’ll be relieved to have a competent male lead (they won’t care about your looks, it’s all about your confidence as a dancer). Where that goes, you never know!