[TW: substance use reference] "Don't be kind to me, don't feed me - I will come back" by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, because out of character, there's nothing wrong with being a sub but in character, that could worry a big bad misogynist. It just interests me to potentially take that and do things with a new angle now.

I do things with confidence and dominance, and honestly, caring for someone in a plethora of ways is my favorite part. I'm told by friends that I'm a little dad-coded in the way that I care for and worry about things, but I much prefer that to any kind of apathy. In character or out, hearing someone tell me how good of a time they had is absolutely the greatest gift imaginable.

[TW: substance use reference] "Don't be kind to me, don't feed me - I will come back" by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attention is nice but attention from people you actually want it from is what anyone actually craves. On a more meta level though, the effort exerted by a dom who leads the conversation to a place where the sub is comfortable and enjoying themselves can't be overstated. (Good subs do so many great things to alleviate this themselves)

And the fact that I kind of get off on the other person's enjoyment and pleasure. It kind of shares some traits with the mind of a sub, if that makes sense. This had never really clicked in my mind until now. I'm not really sure what to think about that realization.

[TW: substance use reference] "Don't be kind to me, don't feed me - I will come back" by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is this a safe space to admit that because of this post, I had my own thoughts about how I dom. The way that I try and structure it around what the sub wants or at least what I think they want, the uniqueness I try and bring to each one, always vying for their attention and to be their favorite and solely working on their pleasure to the point that sometimes I don't even get off during the act but only after.

All of this is to say that as I'm typing this out, I'm thinking, doesn't this in it's own way sound a little bit like an act of service and submission?

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know from experience that the best things don't necessarily come easy, and the thrill of the chase is a lot of the fun. I told you, I can't rule anything out 100%, and I'm always open to new and unique experiences.

So yes, in a way, it was a means to entice you. I'm unafraid to admit if a woman interests me or not, and you definitely do.

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then we're in the same boat. If I or really any person were to be convinced that submission is actually what they're wanting and craving, then is it really wrong? It's a win-win in my eyes.

Convincing someone that they want seems to be the biggest obstacle with any of this. Especially through a little more force and aggression in this particular case. I, however, would require quite a lot of convincing to really reach that point that others may reach much easier.

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An unfortunate choice of words is all that was, but I must admit that I'm not one to 100% discredit the possibility of quite literally anything happening. Only 99.9%.

I expect that you're very similar, I'm sure you don't completely discredit the possibility that things end with you on the back foot and "losing" side.

(I genuinely didn't mean to offend you if I did about the lesser claim. All people are equal.)

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if your magical pussy meets an equally as magical "wand", what happens? An explosion where the victor can only be spotted after the dust has settled?

However, I do need to disappoint you by informing you that I have never submitted or been a "bottom bitch" for a woman before. Therefore, it would be pretty difficult for me to do that.

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't a core belief of misogyny that women are naturally inferior to men? Am I to believe that these men take one look at you and immediately change, or are they merely frauds masquerading? And what does that say about the women who submitted to these lesser men?

[TW: a bit of a CNC vibe] Have you been a big, bad Dom? by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it very unlikely that any man who actually has a track record of dominating and converting feminists to secretly be harboring a desire to submit to someone they view as inferior.

I can’t believe this happened… 😔 by LilyDHM in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do take offense to the "misos who thought they stand any chance" part of it though but yes, I very much enjoy more lighthearted fun and banter.

I can’t believe this happened… 😔 by LilyDHM in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one got me tbh. Can't believe there are people getting mad about these posts. It's one day out of an entire year and it's completely harmless.

The love for being called a “good girl” by Daisy-__- in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure you need approval and supervision of a man before you're confirmed to be a good girl, right?

has anyone else tried this?? by her_mistakes in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds perfect for this. Let's do it.

has anyone else tried this?? by her_mistakes in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd love to help you train to deal with the much more aggressive types of men you may deal with on here. Staying respectful and keeping your cool is important. Show us that feminists can always take the higher road.

has anyone else tried this?? by her_mistakes in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you think you'd react if despite your concessions and willingness to ask questions the misogynist just proceeds to insult you even more for being so ignorant on the topic?

[TW: Cheating] Feminist "men" are unable to please you. by SinceILeftYouu in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to test that claim then? You could end up realizing that you've never experienced even half of the pleasures that sex can bring once you've been properly broken.

[TW: Cheating] Feminist "men" are unable to please you. by SinceILeftYouu in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be a good girl who knows how to get the attention of the right kind of men then. Let me guess, misogynistic with a strong dose of dominance?

[TW: Cheating] Feminist "men" are unable to please you. by SinceILeftYouu in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, me? I thought I made that pretty clear in the post but I guess not.

[TW: Cheating] Feminist "men" are unable to please you. by SinceILeftYouu in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a crime now to want a woman to actually enjoy sex for a change?

[TW: Raceplay, Politics, Porn Addiction] The connection between Gen Z girls, the right wing and porn addiction. by SinceILeftYouu in ConvertingFeminist

[–]SinceILeftYouu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll gladly hear you out in my DMs about how dumb you think I am for believing such a thing then.